Hey guys, I am guilty, some Indian women are very attractive, plus they have a great personality and they are smart 80% of the time. There is this Indian girl at my workplace, we have a great chemistry and she has all the attribute if a perfect wife. I was going to ask her out more than once but I always had the hunch that it will never be. I am not Indian, I am white-ish and I was just looking for some insight from people that went through the same experience, did it become serious or the weight of the tradition are impossible to beat. Thanks
I've noticed and heard from many Indian girls that they would date a white dude. Might as well try. But on the other hand, don't shit where you eat. Dating at work is risky and often not a good idea.
I'm just curious why it's risky?
It can make unnecessary drama and make things tense if you guys ever have bad blood, at least for you, if not for others. Imagine working with your ex.
Take a good hard look at yourself in the mirror. Being attractive makes all the difference between SO and metoo. Godspeed son.
What a shitty ignorant reply that takes a cheap shot at metoo.
Tbh, I’m a supporter of the metoo movement and even I agree that this has a lot of truth. *some* things now considered harassment are simultaneously considered romantic if and only if you’re attractive enough.
I'm an Indian and I can tell you Indian girls do fancy white dudes. Cheers and all the best.
But does it have any chances of going further? How would your parents react if you tell them that you have a white boyfriend
Get the date first bro, then worry about what her parents will think
People are people, no harm in being attracted or asking out someone else who's also single as long as it isn't inappropriate because of the work thing. Kind of agree on the don't shit where you eat. And speaking as a white guy, yeah, there are a lot of good looking Indian women to my taste. Never did date one although got rejected by a couple back in school
Don’t poop where u eat
Naw, go for it. Don’t be reckless or stupid, but give it a try
OP sounds like a troll
I know a German and Taiwanese who married to a Indian woman.
A case of polyandry?
What is “white-ish”? Like how Obama is half white?
Well, as an Indian girl myself, I know that it can be tough getting your parents on board but they might eventually come through. What is more important to know is if she wants to date some one other than an Indian. If you say you have a great chemistry and if you guys hang out even outside work then you should try to figure out her taste. If you get none the wiser, you should just ask her out! At max, she ll say no and you guys can get back to being normal friends but never hold out your like for someone too long to not be able to turn back from it.
Give it a shot. Don’t be scared of rejection.
^that! Good luck!