Six months ago I(M) started falling for her, never said anything. After sex I always wanted to cuddle, talk. She always left or turned the other way when slept over. I stopped, kept just physical. Fast forward a month ago, she said she has started falling for me and we need to stop having sex (as per our decision to stop if either starts having feelings). We had sex a week ago again and just a day ago. Yesterday she said she felt used just for sex. I felt terrible because I never wanted her to feel that and left. Let go or talk things over? Update: If anyone is still interested we went for drinks tonight. The chemistry was not there for a relationship, hung out as friends. We both know that by now guess. Had sex at her place after. Guess we are just meant to be FWB.
Wake up bro
Dude, just be real and tell her your feelings.
Find another FWB
Not so easy! Atleast quality good woman
FWB isn’t all bad if you’re truly good friends. Talking about things when shit gets real is the first thing you can do. It’s the sign of a good friend who can be a good listener and walk with you through life.
She's gonna claim you used her, and that you're a horrible person. Because she's done using you now.
DUDE THERE’S NO SUCH THING AS “JUST SEX.” Court her! let her know she’s special!! don’t play this sex game— the sex is NOT what’s going on here and it is not the important part
But what if she's not special and he doesn't wanna court her? They entered the fwb with the mutual agreement that it'll solely be physical. He has no obligation to have feelings for her just because she has feelings for him.
WHEN YOU’RE HAVING SEX WITHSOMEONE THAT MEANS YOU ARE HAVING FEELINGS FOR THEM. no, of course he has no obligation or anything like that, of course not, but “an agreement to it’ll be solely physical” is a SHAM AGREEMENT. a farce! there’s no such thing as “solely phsyical.” it’s a thing young people make up to not have to deal with the fact that feelings are murky and can’t be compartmented like that
I exactly know what you mean. Sometimes it's hard.
Don’t u have shower after sex? How do u cuddle
Date her. She feels for you, and you felt terrible because she felt bad. There seems to be mutual interest.
This is why FWB sucks. Talk to her about it. If there is mutual interest, date her. If not, decide whether to stay FWB or not. Sounds like it would be bad for both of you, so if you don't date, cut contact imo