Hi, My father had a well paying job up until his 30s. Then he quit the company and started his venture which failed. Then he started another venture which did okay. Not great. He was not the hustler kind that a successful businessman are. He had the potential to achieve more in life but he did bare minimum for the family. He used to play video games and smoke cigarettes. Now he is 60 years old. The scary part is I am doing the same thing. I am doing a well paying job where I work 3-4 hrs daily. I teach coding to kids as a side hustle. I also play video games. I don't smoke. My wife keeps nagging me to do something more useful with my time. She is right. I am so comfortable in life that I don't know what to do. Or if I do something I don't follow through. I developed a game and published it on play store but did not market it. I tried making YouTube videos but quit after a week. I was working on a prototype for an idea and left that too. I have no motivation in life. I'm also not the hustler type. Work from home is kinda killing me. I don't have any friends in the new city I have moved. It's just me and my wife. I am home all day free. I don't feel happy or sad. I am just existing in the current moment. I don't wanna end up like my father. Suggest what to do. TC 40L Rs YOE 5 Wife 30L Rs India #burnout #depression #mentalhealth
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YOE? Why not tell your wife to do something more useful with her time? Why is she nagging you to do it? After you happy with your life?
I'm happy but want to do more in life but don't know what to do.
Just try our stuff to see what you like. Find what ignites interest and passion in you, and doesn't disappear with time. But what's up with your wife telling you to do something useful witb your life? Do you keep telling her you wanna do something and she tells you to do it? Or is she telling you by herself?
Yoe?
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Start exercising, get tested for hormone levels specially thyroid, take vitamins, meditate.
Wife tc ? If wife tc lower than op tc, why does op tolerate the nagging?