We are in our late 30s and have 3 amazing kids (2 boys, 1 girl). We also make more than enough to care for them. However, I feel like the current setup is incomplete and odd (pun intended), and a fourth child will really even the setup out. The 2 boys play with each other a lot and the girl feels left out. I am hoping that a fourth will at least somewhat mitigate this. I also mentally find a pair pleasing. But, another child does come with its challenges in that the first couple of years will be tough - as usual. So, no concrete reason to want a fourth honestly, but, to be fair, no one has an objective reason to have even a single kid. Anyone in a similar dilemma, and ended up going for a fourth? HH TC ~1.2M
Kudos to maintaining that TC with 3 kids and thinking of the 4th. But why do you need to bring so many kids in to this world which is already heavily populated? America keeps advising the entire world to have not more than 2 kids per couple and blames illiteracy whenever countries don't follow that. Hypocrisy.
This is a myth. Our western society is having a population decline thats is never seen before. We are holding up our population simply becuase of migration from the developed countries. Look at the lioes jeff B and Elon M they are breeding like rabbits
Yea and again hypocrites
6 would be better for a full house.
With six you get egg roll.
Yeah after 3 just make as many as possible at that point
You have an ocd for even numbers, thats it.
Maybe. But, logistics are easier with even as well. You can pair up kids in airplanes, bedrooms, restaurants, etc. With odd, one is always left out.
wtf? You can’t plan everything out perfectly. This is such an annoying attitude. You a rich and you have children. Have a 4th or dont, sincerely nobody cares.
How interesting. You think you can somehow decide the sex of the baby while making a baby?
You and wife both work at Meta? Nice tc
Since you're seriously considering it, you'll probably be fine.
It's refreshing to see that people still like having kids. Children are a blessing.
Agree. But, not going to lie - the first year or so is hard.
Yeah my parents. I have 5 siblings. If you have the financial means please do it. One of the best decisions my parents made❤️
I wish my parents did the same.