I'm 28 year old gay middle eastern guy looking for serious gay relationship. I have decent body and good looks but I usually get dates with guys who are either not well educated or not serious, I don't know but do serious gay guy exists? or all are sexually interested in hook-ups.. It's hard for me to believe that there aren't serious gay guys in Seattle.. I don't know where I'm wrong in my approach. Any recommendations here. <<Gay guys please>> 1. Should I use different apps to meet guys? Any suggestions. 2. What type of pictures should I share on my profile? Torso? Abs? 3. It's hard for me to follow-up on chat, should I push for meeting soon. 4. Should I join gay meet up groups? TC:274k
Have you tried Tinder, Match, or Grindr?
Due to the limited supply, you need to change what variables are mandatory and which are optional in a partner. Shirtless pics don’t say “I’m looking for a serious relationship” to me.
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It's hard to find serious straight guys, how do you expect to find serious gay guys with an much smaller population size? 😂
>do serious gay guy exists? or all are sexually interested in hook-ups.. >What type of pictures should I share on my profile? Torso? Abs? You reap what you sow, bro
You’ve never seen the competition on gay dating sites it seems.
I get that but unfortunately the world doesn't work that way. You have to live like Romans if you are in Rome. My motivation of building a body was because of sheer competition in gay dating but later I just got addicted to workout and being healthy. But I don't judge people or body shame if they are out of shape & infact body isn't a criteria for my date, my preference has always been and it will be education and sanity.
How many meat kebabs can you consume
If you are looking for something other than hookups (not that there’s anything wrong with them, but you might get bored after a while) the apps are pretty useless. Low risk and low reward. Personally I’ve had better luck in the real world at bars. If you do use apps, shirtless/abs pics send the wrong message I believe. Also many people use them for getting random attention/validation and that may not be the message you want to send. Text games are a waste of time, it should only be for making arrangements to meet up (That took me a short while to learn). A initial gay relationship should be like tennis with some attempt at reciprocity on both sides. Late Saturday night is a crapshoot with lots of cliques. Happy hour / afternoon after work gets more of the chill, personable, no-drama types. Don’t go out with the end goal of a relationship. Be cool and wait for others to show their cards. They will show their motivations soon enough. Worst that will happen is that you make some acquaintances that you can have a conversation with next time you run into them. Not educated i don’t have any particular advice on. You meet all kinds in the village. Not serious is a numbers game, they are definitely out there but may be reserved as you are.
@ New 💩 : where to go for happy hour? To gay clubs? Are they even open at that time?
Yes. But bars/pubs are going to be a better atmosphere at that hour than nightclubs.
I live in freaking South Bay. The only gay place here is Splash. Which is a gay nightclub that gets people only at night FML! 💩
It’s much easier to date with friends’ friend rather than anyone on the app to be frank. Good luck to you though.
Just moved to a new city. Got no friends no boyfriend :(
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Did you try OKC? I've dated a few guys off OKC but ya, they don't come with a TC of 274. Lol. But they were nice guys looking for serious relationship. Found a couple of guys from work who were serious about long term (can't remember how I found them though) Long story short, They do exist. They come in different flavors. I usually post the same pics from FB/insta). Body pics will help if you are in good shape and they aren't too suggestive. I usually take my time to chat before I go on a date. Quick meet is only for sex. IMO. Good luck finding ❤️!
Thanks for an elaborate & patient response! This is helpful in a sense that it reinforces that I have to be patient & persistent while chatting so that I meet them.