Hi community I noticed that even in tech industry, people still care about their partners' look, and women have no interest in me at all. I'm very confused about this, as VR/AR is around the corner and tools like Deepfake are already demonstrably usable. You will be able to augment/modify your partner's appearance in your eyeglass at your will. Therefore, establishing relationship with a hot partner is like buying a sinking stock at its all time high. We are tech workers and we try to envision, and build the future. Don't you think people's perception of relationship lags behind our time?
All is good until you call her the wrong name
That shouldn't matter. What you have done and experienced in your life defines who you are, not a name decided by your parents. You are the person that works/worked at Symantec who did A, B and have personality C and your partner should love you because of that. If there's another person named GoRams, that may fool the airlines, but won't replace you in your marriage. Name shouldn't matter.
I think that joke went flyin' by....
This made me laugh beyond belief. Thank you.
Please improve hololens; I'm counting on you folks.
“girls have no interest in me at all” I should hope not... it’s weird when minors are attracted to an adult. Anyways, communication is largely nonverbal -> the way we move/stand, or the tone of our voice. What we wear, how we wear it, and our hairstyles say a lot about ourselves. Physical appearance can also reflect how well you are at taking care of yourself. The dating market is largely signal based. Most of these things can be changed with work... also compared with women on the relationship market men appreciate with age relative to women. Also, how tall are you? That’s one thing you might be SoL on.
Humans are not going to stop carrying about looks anytime soon when it comes to the purpose of reproduction. This is ingrained in to our genes and anyone not doing that has genetic issue. Here’s my advice: if you think your looks sucks, there is a bright side. You can save all your time that others need to spend in trying to acquire partner and than keep him/her happy for retention. This is enormous time and money hole. You can now save both of it and use that to experience the world, go to places, do studies, have adventures and so on. A person with family may earn $300K but he/she needs to spend most of that in schools and what not. You can instead use it for solo trips to Europe or experience life in Greek islands. Not having to worry about having partner is liberating. When God eliminates you from reproduction race, you suddenly find yourself in forefront to maximize all the modern technology equity that humans have created to live the life to fullest. Use it wisely.
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Not tryna be a dick but it sounds like this post is you frustrated about your poor looks and venting. That being said, I fully agree. With the advent of Instagram and tinder, my generation leans on largely superficial aspects in the partner search and then complains about there not being enough quality people Its bad news
Yeah, when I see posts starting with x'y", zz LBs (not even using metric system which is pretty lame) as if that's the most important thing and defines who you are, I feel like we are still living in 1950s.
Lol if you lean on largely superficial aspects in the partner search, there's a plethora of options. It's only when you start looking for things that actually matter in a relationship that you realize there aren't quality people