How to quit this marriage
I am lacking will power and self respect to exit this marriage. How to just walk out? It feels so intimidating. I find no emotional ground and sensitivity in the way my wife squarely blames all issues on me without taking any accountability. She has terrible tendency to go on angry monologue for hours blaming any third party object for her annoyance rather than, working to solve the root cause of the issue with an even tempered tone/reasoning. And later she finds a way to implicate me as a source of her misery (which was originally centered on a third party). Are all woman like this in marriage? am I being sissy complaining here? If I suggest separating, she becomes very much more furious and can’t bear seeing me go . I feel helpless. She has developed this influence on me where I can’t dare to walk out but don’t want to stay. Married 7yrs, no kid, both employed in tech #marriage #relationships
Make alcohol as your second wife, she would be loyal, never complaining, providing support against real one, keeping you happy overall, she only charges few years of your life later, but whats the point of living more without it anyways. You may argue to leave both wives, find another real good wife, but then what if you find another odd one, then you are even more doomed
You must put your foot down. You should go through the credit card statements in front of her. Depending on how inconvenienced you are, you can even cut the cards.
To prove that you the sugar daddy
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Lol it a power play your not being a sissy by ranting you are a sissy. Since you don't have the balls to leave she will see no reason to change. And no don't blame women for your shortcomings . Grow the F UP
TC or GTFO
The #1 warning sign is if she has different expectations for you than she does for herself. If you acted the way she does, what would she do? If you think "she would lose her fucking mind" you need to gtfo, especially since you have no kids. PS: look up an emotional abuse checklist and see whether you identify with it. If you do, definitely gtfo no matter what.
Does the behavior match the book: I Hate You--Don't Leave Me? If so work with a therapist
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Dude you have no idea how lucky you are that you don't have kids and wife is employed. You can easily divorce without worrying about child support or alimony. The decision cannot be any easier than this. Wish you all the best.
Get used to it or get out while you still can. She will not change.
Stay away from people that doesn’t give you good vibe!