So, how many of you have been cheated upon by your partner? What did you do about it.
I’m a serial cheater, because gosh, I just can’t get enough!
I was cheated on but pretended not to notice.
Curious, why did you do that? M or F?
Couldn't imagine finding anyone else and didn't want to lose her. M.
If I had confronted her about it, who knows what would have happened? And she hasn't done anything like that since then.
You are so wise. To see long term. Be a good estimator of actions of your girlfriend. Etc.
You have a conversation like a grown up. It’s going to hurt, but you figure out if the cheating happened because something is missing in the relationship for one or both of you, or if you aren’t in a place to be together because you no longer want the same things. There are many other options, but those are two major ones and they are rarely discussed. So whether you cheat or get cheated on you owe it to yourself to figure out why it happened and decide how you want to move forward with your life one choice at a time.