Apologies for the dumb question, but please try to avoid the trolls. I am a single man, haven't been able to find my soulmate yet in my mid 30s, but want to have my own children. What are my options? I see there are sperm banks where I can donate sperm, but that comes with 18 year anonymity so I am not inclined towards that. Is there a process or agency that can help me here? š
Are you seriously asking āhow babby is formedā?
Surrogacy.
surrogacy is abuse
Why is surrogacy abuse?
You can take the IVF route with your sperm paired with an egg donor implanted into a surrogate. I would also pay the surrogate to raise the child for a year or two if she is open to nursing this child.
You donāt need a soulmate to father a child. Do you want to raise this child or just know that one exists and be uninvolved?
I want to raise the child, be a full-time father.
Maybe single-parent surrogacy is an option? There is also the classic way of just having unprotected sex with random women (but that obviously has its own risks).
Create a platform offspring4.me where you match people from the opposite sex who both want kids. Users must include blood/genetic tests, medical information, and pictures. ML can be used to match users based on their genetic profile to reduce risk of certain diseases and perhaps for aesthetic purposes of the babies too.
The guy is in his mid 30s with survival instints kicking in real hard, and you r suggesting he make a side project, bruh
Bruh this wouldn't be a mere side project. This would be his main life project leading to procreation.
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You still have time to find your soulmate mid 30s isnāt that old for a man. Personally I plan to remain single through my 20/30s and then marry a 20 year old when Iām in my 40s.
How are you going to attract a 20 year old?
Why do you think you will have anything in common with 20 yo?
If you really want to be a full time father then do some good and change a life forever - āadopt a childā!!! You will be blessed forever and you will really change someoneās life
Itās not that easy to adopt while being a single man.
You mean like Arnold Schwarzenegger in Junior?