I would really like to meet a white women. I am very attracted to them I am 27 years old male in sf bay. I am half east Indian and half middle eastern if it matters light-skinned, slim. I have been working out. I have been raised here, parents are liberal, open-minded. No typical drama type of traditions and all. It is just so hard to get even a match not sure what I am doing wrong. Do not know if I will even find the one? I am on bumble, tinder, CMB. Any women out there have any tips or can help with my profile? I do not have tons of friends in bay area too otherwise it would have at least made it easier to meet new people. Heard after 30 women want to settle down and tend to look for settled guys vs the bad boy type. Found an interesting perspective from a women. https://www.quora.com/Do-American-women-find-Indian-men-physically-attractive?ch=10&share=199d4871&srid=tbJK #relationships #dating
I’m not catfishing I run a relationship coaching side business
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Get some shitty looking tats, buy a truck, change your name to spencer or brody?
Lol yeah
It'll be a struggle. There's a reason why you almost never see a middle eastern/Asian man with a white woman, more often the other way around. "Foreign" looking women are exotic but the men are just screwed. But it's 2020 and "wE dOn'T cArE iF yOuR sKiN cOlOr is bLaCk, wHiTe, or pUrPLe"
Meh not quite. I’m of Middle Eastern descent and married to a white woman. My brother is engaged to a white woman, my off the boat dad is married to a white women. It’s really not that uncommon.
Well it’s not that I acted as white as I could, it’s basically how I grew up, unlike most of my American cousins who have both parents from the Middle East. Besides the food I have really no idea what Middle Eastern culture is and have no idea how to speak the language. I had no cultural identity from the start. Well my name is very Middle Eastern and I just highlighted my personality on dating sites. Getting matches/messages wasn’t a challenge at all. I’m not from some ultra progressive land either, I grew up in Florida...
Depends. I’m a Middle Eastern American (Iranian/White mixed) and have pretty much exclusively dated white women (married to one now). The biggest thing that I’ve noticed that probably helps is that being born here and thus highly “Americanized” is that women don’t see me for my race (my last name an physical characteristics are very obviously Middle Eastern) and more so as just another guy. In short an absolutely certain way to make yourself more attractive to a larger population of white women is basically strip yourself of your cultural identity as much as possible and essentially dress/act/talk like an average American dude. Get cracking on your pop culture, movies and music knowledge as well. If you have an accent take classes to lose it. It’s not an ideal situation to strip yourself of basically your culture. Personally I’d just wait for a woman who your attracted to and is attracted to everything about you. There are absolutely women out there who will like you for who you are. For me it was easy because I never grew up with any cultural identity (besides eating cultural food a few times a week).
Thanks. I appreciate your reply. It is just hard to meet white women if you are in tech, especially in bay area. HR probably has the most women out there. Hope to meet that woman one day! Probably there is a lot of stereotypes out for indian men.
There is also sometimes a perception among white women that Indian men are spoiled man children. So you need to try your hardest to not give off that vibe
Why do you like white women so much. I don't get it.
They are attracted to the colonizers.
For people like you who fetishize/objectify woman OP, I'd say almost impossible. For any normal, well-adjusted person, odds are probably the same as anyone else
Ruh roh. Here comes the PC police, telling you that you’re not allowed to have any preference about who you prefer to mate with 😅
Don't twist it to racism.
No offense, but what is so special about white women?
White woman is too broad of a category but IMO they have quite a few attractive physical features "on average". It's not necessarily the skin tone though. But as I said, it's on average. To go on a bit of philosophical tangent, it's a lot like dog breeds. Some look cuter than others "on average" to humans and it doesn't mean that they are smarter or more capable dogs by any means. Basically the shape of a human/animal face and body is absolutely weird in every sense with random holes and weird moving pieces in various places so there's nothing pure about it. IMHO it's just some [now inaccurate] biological holdover for some humans to look more sexually attractive based on perhaps certain facial/body features. But then again a lot of these beauty assessments is a combination of being common across humans and an acquired taste. Like food. Disclaimer: I'm not a so-called white as in of European descent.
I'd say that all the white ladies I hung out with had no prejudices, had a free and easy-going style which allowed me to be myself and hang out with them to an extent that is unimaginable with Asian ladies. This is the one quality I do admire in them. They are also articulate and not self-conscious, mostly.
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