Wife is OK. So it's not cheating. However, women do not want to hang out with me once they learn I am married. I also don't want to use dating apps because people I know might see and unfortunately people in this country are super judgmental. What are my options for dating? I am fit and looking for a long term relationship.
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The same way as an unmarried man. Using the dating apps. Or less mainstream apps if you’re worried about being seen. Or if you have specific fetishes. There’s a lot of married folks on the apps so you’re not going to be alone.
Wife okay with it, how Which country u both live in, is ur wife Japanese?
Not sure what this has to do with being Japanese.
Put it on your app you’re ENM. That’s a must
Use R4r subreddit in your area, this subreddit is exactly for this purpose where people want to date or hookup but don't want to be seen on dating apps.
You’re supposed to use hinge and say non-monogamy. It’s literally on the profile filters under relationship type. Lots of girls are into that. How do you not know this is in the app? Put in some effort, it’s impossible to miss. There’s going to be a lot of marriage kink energy — if you’re handsome, tall, and fit you’ll do well. If you’re ugly… Don’t even bother. As a man, non-monogamy is all about looks, money, and status.