How do I get a CS boo?
Using Tinder without much success. I’m probably going to reset my account/Elo score soon. My weird thing is that I’m exclusively interested in girls in CS (I know beggars can’t be choosers but I’m not terribly lonely or whatever). Things I’m doing: - Eating better - Hitting the gym - taking better pictures - Dressing better - mention CS in bio (surprising # of girls do that) (I don’t think I’m that ugly, just still about 15lb too heavy and have lost 20 since August) Problems: - Shorter side (5’8 or so) - I’m Indian and come off as a fob despite being a good ol southern boy inside Any advice?
What is CS..?
Computer Science. General term for devs just because I’m in college.
Be less Indian. Jk.. But really you should try other dating apps. Have you tired coffee meets bagel?
I have, but I didn’t use it much. People seemed less interesting than on Tinder for whatever reason. CS concentration far lower. I think they also have a points system right?
they aren’t much different from regular girls imo. I like your list of things you’re doing. good luck OP
Work on your self esteem issues. They’re prevalent in this post. Stop actually seeking female companionship and make friends in stuff you like to do...whatever that may be. Tinder is for hookups...don’t waste your time if you want something meaningful. A girl will come to you when you have confidence, aren’t using women as relationship objects or seeking attention from them, and you have an interesting life of your own. Good luck
Ignore all of this
For sure, he can do what he wants
Try meetups, but not the CS related ones. Go for the board game nights, or the Singles bar hopping ones. Pretty good chance of meeting folks there, and in low pressure situations.
I would suggest that be more Indian. Wear your ethnic cloths, share authentic experience of being you. When one tries to become,what one is not ; it creates trouble.
I’m American by birth so nah
That’s such strange advice. Just be yourself. I’ve never taken a photo next to an elephant.
I disagree. I would be less likely to be with someone with weird fake props. On tinder I would go for a guy with something somewhat funny in the bio but also serious.
Set the example bro. Take the pic and share it on here
CS boo? Make chicks do leetcode before you meet them. But seriously though, hit the gym, height doesn’t really matter since most women are around ~5’4. Find some dude friends and hit the bars. Plus remember man, you’re one in 8 billion, you are the center of your universe. Make sure you know who you are and what matters to you. Just be the person or want to be, and you’ll find your “boo”. Best of luck dude.
As a 5'5, I should kill myself. Lol
Damn dude 5’5 isn’t short. As long as you got the game and the goods, you can still be a player. Go get’em tiger!
Have you tried lying? Tell them you have mba or whatever works!
Hit the bars
I don’t drink :/
Who is asking you to drink, just find the lonely one