How do I get matches on tinder and subsequent dates?
I am a simple person who is not very socially active. I don't drink either. I am finding it tough to get tinder matches even though I swipe right on every other profile. How do I fix this? I have put up decent pictures and bio.
Based on your own description of yourself youāre unattractive and most of all boring. Nobody owes you anything here. What were you expecting? Would you want to date yourself? š§ how is this hard to figure out... maybe a troll.
I am expecting some tips you a hole. You don't have to tell me things which I already know. If you can't help then don't post mean comments at least.
Need to know your race, height... assuming youāre male. I just assumed your gender
And donāt forget TC. Maybe they should add that straight into the photos as a caption.
Iāve swiped right on a finance bro who mentioned his TC once. Just once.
Swiping right on every profile is used as an indicator that you are desperate / low quality and decreases how often your profile is shown to others.
Like you have worked with tinder before helping them write this algorithm?
Nope. But itās common knowledge. Tinder uses the Elo rating system, which is commonly used in Chess. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Elo_rating_system Basically, every time you swipe right and someone else swipes left, that counts as a loss for you. Some actions are bigger losses than others
Care about your profile and photos. Proper and attractive photos work but please donāt upload stupid selfie! Beware girls donāt like a guy who is desperate!
Most of it is what pictures you upload. Upload your pics to photo feeler
Use someone else's picture
You should start drinking. Also I wouldnāt say being simple is a good thing.
Just post a pay stub. Problem solved.
Next.
some of you guys are so mean š