In this fu*** up world. Cons: - The stress in a tech job is real - kids cost money - I would quit my job if I had to have kids cause it’s a huge responsibility morally- you are in control of making someone’s life - How do you find a woman who will have your babies. Pros: You might get some entertainment and smile more by looking at younger version of yourself.
You shouldn't have children @OP
You should not too with the way lacework is valued rn
Lacework sucks, lol
It’s not that hard to have kids. You are just psyching yourself
How do you manage stress
What stress? Have sex, have babies, then just wing it a step at a time
Bofa knows
Indeed
Start from the last one in your cons
lol, exactly! Without the last one the rest are moot
There’s no free lunch. You gotta suffer now to reap benefits later. It is what it is.
What benefits exactly?
Your children are the most closest thing you would have in this world. They are literally your extensions. Their smile and innocence makes you forget all the problems in your life. The joy of raising children and watching them grow in their lives. The shared experiences with children. The memories. The family. And grand children. At the end of the day, family is all you got. Everything else is just meh.
Step 1: fawk around Step 2: find out
You think things are tough now? Our ancestors survived unimaginable horrors. You’ve likely never missed three meals in a row (unintentionally). We don’t have to deal with a super volcano eruption causing the human population to decline to 10k people worldwide. We’re not getting invaded by Mongolians, and Covid didn’t have shit on the Black Plague. Given the struggle to survive that resulted in my being here, it’s a slap in the face of humanity and my ancestors to voluntarily delete myself out of the gene pool. I have four kids, I practice what I preach.
Great going for world population
Spot on
Maybe because not everyone is as poor as you? Look around your neighborhood. All those landlords are richer than your entire family
how did people have kids during World War 2
No condoms
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Oh I thought you were gonna ask how it's done.
He he
I was preparing for the birds and bees conversation too.