How do we solve #MeToo
Even though I'm a man, I was once groped by a friend of mine. I didn't know he was gay. He sneaked up behind me like he was hugging me, then full on grabbed my cock. I was so freaked out. It's nothing compared to many other stories, but it's something. Anyway, how does one actually solve this? A sexually frustrated person is likely to do desperate things, just like my scared gay friend was. They are especially likely to do this if they don't expect any consequences, either immediately (from their subject) or in the future (prison, termination, etc.). What to do? What to do? What to do?
What if your device was able to show your personal bubble was breached without your consent. Consent could be given through an app. Just a thought
With Blockchain technology as the single source of truth. Holy shit. Who wants to start a Blockchain consent system? We can make a tattoo that indicates someone is on the Blockchain consent project, and if they are then anything other than verified consent is considered rape by the community. Initially, the community will have a lot of sex within itself (benefits for early adopters), but then the whole world will adopt the system. Who's down?
Someone already did this; look up LegalFling. Truly terrible idea
A girl grabbed my balls as she passed me in a club just a few weeks ago and when I turned to see who it was she winked and smiled. I didn’t find it attractive at all so I just ignored it.
I mean, your balls hurt right?
No, she was gentle.
Jiu-Jitsu. On a more serious note, the #Metoo moments have the same thread - abuse of power. If you want to fight off random rapists in the dark corners - it is a lot easier problem than asking to fuck off your boss, boyfriend/girlfriend, parent, as they always have that power to twist the facts, ruin career and turn any accusations against the victim. What you do is the same as with any other social issue - gather all the courage and expose it, talk about it openly, bring it up as a problem in random conversations. Take it out of the anonymous internet channels and talk to your male and female coworkers about it. Let people around you know that you are not Ok with anyone abusing their power. It is a generic prescription.
Obviously you grope him back. It’s called an eye for an eye. Biblical.
That is called escalation.
The world will be blind then. Terrible idea.
If it was a friend, did you try talking to him about how uncomfortable it made you?
He wasn't a very good friend. I told him I felt harrassed and while I wasn't sure if he was out or not (pretty sure he wasn't he always talked about girls), I would tell people he harrassed me if he ever tried to do it again. This was in college. So I guess I blackmailed him a little because I was scared. Wow, I'm a badass.
Well there you go. You took the right approach. I don't think you can stop #metoo moments only approach them better. If it makes you feel better, I've had it happen to me too, although as a kid.
Should have stuck your finger in his butt just to one up him
First, stop the false accusations. When cops with body cameras are falsely accused, normal citizens don’t have much self defense. https://abcnews.go.com/US/woman-falsely-accused-texas-state-trooper-sexual-assault/story?id=55407714
Did he have the common courtesy to finish you off?
Have you tried reciprocating?
Are you serious? This is probably a terrible idea. It would just make the dude think that OP is interested
How do you come up with such shitty ideas