So, long ago, I met a guy at a party hosted by my good friend. I usually talk more with girls, and this guy noticed. He inquired with my good friend whether I have a boyfriend or not. My friend consistently insists on me going out with him and dating him, but I always deny it. Later, he matched my shuttle timings and we just said hi. He initiated conversation every time and asked my name, and we became friends. Later, he bought a new Audi. He offered me a ride, and at that time I had just finished my intensive gym and was tired. It was a long 30 minutes drive with romantic Bollywood songs playing in the background. He was giving information during the drive and told us many times that we would go there. Guy is truly handsome. He looks like Virat Kohli. I never told him, but he really is very good-looking. He sent me a friend request on Instagram. Although I saw it, I didn't respond. why? I fear love and I don't trust men more. I have only ultimate trust in my parents. I accepted many things like arrange marriage business . The problem is my pretty face. I just don't want to show him any signs. What actions do girls take to escape? I don't like to hurt anyone. don't give me lectures, my life story is different and don't judge me. (If he is on Blind and reading this then I am Sorry, I don’t wanna move forward)
Sukdeep…it’s getting late…
Shut up. I am a woman. It’s not a fake story. He sent me insta request today and I didn’t respond and won’t respond also.
With all due respect, this is the wrong app to talk about things like this.
I wrote so by chance if he is on blind then he will understand and I won’t respond to his insta request.
Seems a bit passive aggressive why don't you just talk to this guy instead of playing games.
What is the problem
10 years olds using blind now
I've gone through the same phase, it's our past traumas that is stopping us. I'm still recovering & it's not easy Maybe he was not the right guy but you will be pushing away many good potential guys because of your past trust issues, by keep avoiding them, just like you did This mostly happens when you got hurt in the past by the person you loved, so you have formed a protective boundary around heart to never let that happend again. Subconsciously a person mind always looks for ways to reverse the trauma, that's why u r having trust issues with men There r only 2 ways to recover from this. 1st way (reversal) : lets assume you had a bf who cheated on you with someone other (now this trauma isndeep buried in ur subconscious mind). Even if you got married & your husband loves you the most, you cannot form that deep connection & will always be having trust issues. The only way you will form deep connection is when your husband cheats on you BUT instead of choosing the other girl, he comes back to you. This way you have healed your past trauma (**mind blown**) And I'm sure u don't want to hurt someone because of your past trust issues, so here is the 2nd option 2nd way (acceptance): ACCEPT IT. That something is wrong & u have to consciously work on it. Most people failed at this step only, as our heart cannot accept that we can have some issues. It took me around 6 months just to accept it. I'm still recovering & I'm much better now Also start following some psychology blogs and youtube channel, that will help u to understand ur mind better.
You sensed things = you were horny. You are looking for real love and attraction but for some reason , you prefer being papa ki Pari..
No ways. Don’t cook up story. I am not 10 years old girl. I do understand when someone gives enormous attention to me. I guess you never experienced. He mentioned that he is looking forward to starting a new story now. Why would someone give a 30-minute drive? Do you give 30-minutes ride to all girls? That guy is very good looking guy and he has his intense gym, I was walking that day and he just came from office and saw me and told me let’s go. He could have taken rest and then just 5 min small ride. I do understand emotions. I am not blind. Romantic Bollywood songs in addition to chat. He dropped me close to my building. Furthermore, I sensed it a few weeks ago only because he suddenly chose to sit next to me, even though other seats were available. So that he can only talk to me because he won't use the shuttle in the future. He is a good guy and for me, he is only my friend. As a friend, I will be there, but not as a romantic partner. I don't want any care or love. FYI … he is already showering lots of care and attention. I don’t want Princess treatment. I don’t prefer being papa ki pari.
Pretty face 😇
I don’t accept a ride. He bought a new Audi so I thought just 5 min ride. Today he pinged me again and invited me again. I declined it. I don’t wanna give him false hopes. He is a good looking guy and he can get anyone. He just likes my pretty face. That’s it. But for me, he is my friend only.. no other emotions. I could have easily accepted long drive today also, but I didn’t.
I don’t trust men. That’s the fact. Problem is pretty face. I get attention because of that. I understood it. People are not interested in true love. I don’t wanna use him because he has Audi and let’s take free rides. I don’t wanna hurt anyone. It’s not my intention.
Delusional, pick-me Pooja confuses Blind once again with her sad diary filled with fantasies. Actual attractive women do not seek the need for anonymous validation so constantly the way you do.
Yeah, OP is definitely one of them.
I am not seeking validation. I asked how to stop it. I don't want to give him false hope. He is just like my friend. Nothing more. He asked for a long drive today, but I said no. I am NOT cunning as you people think. Thank you Nvidia and Google… Judgmental..
If he is on blind and understands the girl he is trying on is indeed Princess on Blind then he will back off by himself. No further action is needed from your side. 😛
Well, you don’t know me and you don’t know how do I treat my friends. So stop being judgmental. If he would know then he would say.. yeah you are princess only. I am not neither cunning nor attitude girl.
Haha I am just kidding. You might be a nice person. Why not just straightaway say no to the guy?
All those gym workouts should help you run, whatever it's from 😂
No.. it won’t. I sensed many things. I didn’t even ask for ride but I sensed intense energy to show me Audi and that care scared me. That’s the fear. He loves pretty face. For me, he is just my friend and nothing else. I don’t wanna show him attitude.
For me you are anonymous and nothing more though you claim many things. Now, shut up and get back to running Don't f**king waste our time with your pointless emotions