Getting started recently, not much luck after the first few when I was in another city - how should I get mine reviewed/optimized?
So what you’re asking is, how can I spin the real me to attract the honest and real wo/man that I seek. Content doesn’t matter much, as most won’t read it. Get in the best shape possible, and have clear pictures of your youthful face, as well as choice shots of your body. The decision being made by the viewer is: do I want to be naked with this person? To hell with puffing up your personality. Online dating is fucking brutal when you’re not in the upper echelon, it will humble and/or embitter you.
That’s where you’re wrong. Women actually spend the time to read the profile. First -pic, then profile. This is where all the red flags start popping up.
Ayyy, Hey know what’s up
Post anonymously on reddit etc. You’ll get good feedback on which photos to keep and which to get rid of.
Doesn’t help if he’s just not attractive in the first place.
Don’t be on Tinder if you’re not in shape lol*. I gained fat in 2017 and got off tinder. I’ll go back when I lose 15 lbs :) * for guys. It’s easier if you’re a girl. 80% of girls on Tinder are only interested in the top 20% of guys.
Does amihotornot still exist? Try something like that.
Tinder is a fantastic tool for people who already have a high success rate i.e. it works great if you’re already attractive and charismatic in real life. It multiplies the number of other attractive people you can meet (and who will see/take interest in you) far beyond what you could do without an app. Attractive people can use Tinder to initiate multiple relationships simultaneously without even getting up off the couch! But, If you’re ugly, average or uninteresting all Tinder does is increase your exposure to people who were already uninterested in you. The best you can do is clean up a few faux pas on your profile and polish it so you come off a little better. In a literal sea of thirsty and painfully average dudes, 98% of women still won’t swipe right on you. If you’re not attractive or particularly charismatic, Tinder might not be the best dating method for you. Try mutual interest groups or meeting friends of friends, you’ll likely have more success.
I think these are good points. On second thought maybe I’ll just get it arranged...
I’m guessing by the arranged marriage comment you’re Indian. Unfortunately, your race/skin color is also working against you on Tinder in the US. Really do not recommend Tinder for you. Not saying it’s impossible, but it’s probably not the best option. I get it... it’s not fair, it’s racist... but you came here to get a date, not solve racism. Set yourself up for success as best you can instead of playing a game where the odds are stacked against you.
Remember those who look hungry starve.
Go to your friendly neighborhood plastic surgeon.
Man! Some of you are brutal!!! As someone who has used Tinder before, I often do wonder if the guys whose profiles I come across realize that they are on a dating apps. Some of them use photos that are repulsive. It makes me wonder if it’s just a troll or if it’s really how they look. Your main photo is also important. If it’s not one that shows off your face, I probably won’t click to view the rest of your profile. But I always read their blob. If they aren’t super attractive, but wrote something amusing, I’d be more inclined to swipe right.
Get professional photos taken. The photos are the only thing that really matters.
It may not be you. 90% of profiles on tinder look fake to me.
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This is what friends are for.
My friends are ugly too
Make some new friends then. Try a new activity. Be friendly to people. Friends will also help grow your social network and meet someone you’d like to date. If you want more attractive friends, make some friends outside of tech/engineering.