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My brother in China has a decent B.S. degree in Computer Science and about 2-year exp. But he has been NEETing(Not in Education, Employment, or Training) for about 5 years. I tried to persuade him into finding a job but failed and eventually got blocked multiple times. It looks like he wants a position from a best company which unlikely wants to hire him because of the long gap. But he simply does not want to firstly make do with a small ordinary company which may have a low bar. Is there any possibility for him to get out of NEET? Does anyone have experience getting out of NEET? #mentalhealth #NEET
Step 1 is to post TC
Brother is a NEET, so by definition TC = 0
Who's paying his bills
He is living with my parents and pays no bills. I think they should simply kick him out but it might become a disaster.
If they don't want to change there is nothing anyone else could do. He is a grown-up so I'd say just leave him alone.
Also if they have a CS degree it might be easier for him to re-start afresh in a new place (Canada for example) but again it really depends on whether he wants it.
Do you mean applying for a Masters program in Canada? Or would it be possible to directly apply for a job there?
either way start with school is usually easier
I thought the Indian NEET lol. It's basically usmle in india
neetcode :)
That’s tough. I have now a couple NEETs in my time. Could be some mental health issue like a serious case of social anxiety. Are they extremely introverted?
I wouldn’t say extremely introverted but yes he is pretty introverted
My man loving the dream. I was a NEET once, I only wish my parents weren't dirt poor and selfish prlcks
May I ask how you got out?
Honestly you can't convince your brother directly. You should convince your parents instead to move him to an environment he hates living. Give him some an uncomfortable environment and hardships. This will naturally motivate him to change. Speaking from experience, this changed my life in my teens and I'm a completely different man today.
bootcamp?
Any recommendation in China? I actually tried once, but it is actually hard to even get him out of home.
just do online one don’t matter where he is did u also consider the civil service exam