FitnessJul 15, 2019
VMwaretomatoe

How to get over jealousy

My flatmate recently got into FB and I am very jealous since then. How to get over this feeling of intense jealousy?

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Timbuktu Jul 15, 2019

Get inspired , work harder and get into Google maybe. Don’t brood on the negatives

VMware tomatoe OP Jul 15, 2019

TBH this guy didn't appear very smart and is very arrogant and now I cannot stand his boastful advice on how to crack interviews. He is not SWE though.

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Timbuktu Jul 15, 2019

Perhaps he just prepared well, smartness tells only half the story

Twitch brangot Jul 15, 2019

Find a loser flatmate like yourself

VMware tomatoe OP Jul 15, 2019

Yes, going to do that soon.

Microsoft richardhea Jul 15, 2019

Or get your own apartment as soon as you graduate from college! 🍆

Oracle not_larry Jul 15, 2019

Pray that he gets Meets Some.

Stripe exJX72 Jul 15, 2019

Fight them

eBay ebabe Jul 15, 2019

Remind yourself fb is a huge ad company and it should hurt less. Also cry yourself to sleep

Facebook BeingCoder Jul 15, 2019

@ebabe you would accept a fb job offer in a heartbeat. OP needs to accept the truth and move on but needs to do something substantial. Every one is lucky, it's just that the time at which luck happens is different.

eBay ebabe Jul 15, 2019

I turned down fb, as I got a higher level and TC elsewhere. I was very conflicted about the company and the security / scandals, leadership, it was not a good fit for me.

Google Gigamisu Jul 15, 2019

Make flatmate jealous of your wlb.

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stalio Jul 15, 2019

Read The Rational Male

LinkedIn Data@Scale Jul 15, 2019

When I got a poor rank in IITJEE (entrance exam to IITs in India) and my best friends got under 1000 ranks this is what my Dad told him (and something that has stuck with me ever since)- “Your success at any point in life depends on how much effort you put in 3-5 years before that, so JEE result is just a testament to how much effort you guys put in the past couple of years. Instead of getting jealous, analyze what they did differently “

Facebook BeingCoder Jul 15, 2019

All my Indian friends who went to IIT are naturally talented. What I feel is that they have a very fast learning curve for any new problem. You need to explain them just the abstract and they will figure out a beautiful solution.

Google Narpreet Jul 15, 2019

Jealous because of his TC? I don’t understand the admiration FB has. Awful products for boring people.

Google 99999 Jul 15, 2019

Mostly TC. Agree on the product part.

Juniper scandeep Jul 15, 2019

Jack up the rent then but then since their TC will probably enable them to move out.