How to hold conversation with dates or girls in general?
I find it really difficult to keep the conversation flowing if other person is not a chatter box. How to keep the conversation flowing when on date or in general with girls?
Just relax and the conversation flows. Do you ever have to think about making a conversation with someone you already know? Just treat it the same and let it flow
Go on lots of first dates. No expectations. Practice makes perfect. That’s what I did. By my 15th or so first date, I had it down to a science.
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People love to talk about themselves. As you’re talking, pick out something that can be expanded on, anything where you can say “oh that sounds interesting, tell me about that” even if you’re not interested. It’s part of their story, and if this goes somewhere, it becomes a piece of data you know.
If you want to be interesting -> be interested. Generally (**note: generalization and doesn’t apply to all women**) I’ve observed women like to talk about human relationships. Ask her about friends, siblings, roommates... if you discover an area that puts a smile on her face go deeper on it. If her body language goes cold, quickly change topic. Also, ON FIRST DATES, talk about yourself as little as possible. How many times do girls have to tell us they hate when a guy goes on and on about themselves before we take the hint? :)
Being genuinely interested, see it as a time for you to learn something new. Girls love when a guy is interested in other things other than banging them.
Ask her about herself
Since ya fuckers like acronyms, here’s what you do: Talk about FORD topics and slowly escalate touch through out the date. You can tell what the girl thinks about you or if she wants to fuck by how she responds to touch. And interview rules apply, always talk yourself up humbly (demonstrate value) and don’t be negative. Family Occupation Recreation Dreams
@Apple - "earlish touch" as you say - I think most girls would feel this as creepy and that's why most guys don't do it soon enough.
If you're not a natural then it's actually way harder than it looks. You should work on your dating skills like any other skill. There is no leetcode for dating but I'd recommend "The Game" by Neil Strauss as a good starting point. It will at least open your eyes to what you're missing.
Read "how to talk to anyone" if being human isn't natural for you.
Be good