I found a girl (college junior or senior) in fb group and I have a huge crush on her. She's so pretty without makeup and the way she plays with her nephew melts my heart. Her family lives in Kentucky and goes to college in Phoenix. I live in the Bay Area. She doesn't know I exist. All I know is her fb and ig and her sister's ig. I know sliding into her dm is not the way, at least she's not this type. Sending dm to her sister is also a coward move. Have you been in this situation? What should I do to get closer to her and get her attention? It's a long shot and should I just give up? Input from girls/women are really appreciated as well. PS: At best I'm average looking and I'm not the type of guy girls would risk it all.
Go for it.
How?!
Just ask her how’s she’s doing, how was her day, some topic from the FB group you two are in..the basic stuff and the conversation could go further. Don’t ask her out for drinks or lunch yet.
Just curious... how did you find or come across her?
I was scrolling through the comments and saw her comment. Checked her profile.
abort
Be straightforward... All your thinking and dreams no wr reacher her.. Be bold make is it as yes or no.. Only who dares succeeds else keep quiet you will watching only on Facebook for life long...
But I need to be physically close to her just to have a chance. Should I move there?
Yes move there, then hit on her. If she rejects you, move back.
She's NOT like ig models looking for social validations with followers. In fact she has ~300 followers and almost 1:1 follower followee ratio. That's one of the main reason I fell for her. She's like a gem 😩
I find this thread a bit strange. It seems a little stalkery - while I believe your intentions are definitely self-interested, you don’t seem dangerous or unkind. So I would recommend starting to interact with her public social media by liking her posts and, on platforms like Facebook and Twitter, replying with memes or YouTube videos that relate to what she’s posting about. You may be able to build a rapport that way. If you’re courageous enough to speak up without prior interaction, tell her she is beautiful and seems kind and that you’d like to get to know her better if she’ll give you a chance. Do not pressure her, guilt her, or heaven forbid move near her... and if she says no thank you, move on.
This is practical advice. Thanks I'll take this approach
Don’t do memes or YouTube wtf? That’s going to make you look like a creepy bot. Just post a legitimate heartfelt comment about her content. Like “looking good girl!” or “where is this? Would love to take someone on a date here”. Get her to respond to you.
Just ask her by sliding into DMs or move on if you don't have the courage.
Women secretly like it except when you’re ugly then we don’t like it but whatever. You’re not going to go to jail for trying.
How do women feel when an ugly person propose in DMs ?
This post is useless without pics.
You get her by stop acting like a 3rd grader "oh my god i'm in love at first sight my dream wife she's going to be the perfect woman 😍😍😍." Wait til she hears that, she's gonna be wetter than the Niagra Falls
Before you engage with anything, do a thought experiment of "if a random stranger posted this, would I have found the content interesting enough to have wanted to engage with it, and would I have something I wanted to say even to a complete stranger?" If the answer is "no" or even only a "maybe" - don't do it. Whatever you were going to say was likely going to be full of weird energy.
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