All the single people out there, how do you meet girls? Before COVID, I used to go to pubs and bars and meet women there, now I haven’t met anyone new since February. I tried tinder and other dating app with almost no success. Any advice or suggestions? #tech #dating #relationships Edit: TC 250K YOE 2.5 Getting out of Bay Area/WFH from a different location is not an option for me as I am going to office already. And how do you guys meet people on blind??
Tell them they are hot on a 250 person zoom call?
Do you monitor blind for insider trading?
I'm in your blind watching your stonks. All rsu talk will be monitored.
A woman’s perspective: tinder is fine for hookups (which can be fun!), but I’ve been using Blind to find new friends. j/k
TC or gtfo
^doesn't speak for all women, and is probably part of the problem why men behave like animals on tinder. Many use tinder to find a good long term partner, or try to at least.
Offer to get them discount on the new iPhone.
That I can do😬😬
Can’t agree with getting out of Bay Area more, based on a personal story WFH has made it such a practical option, and besides meeting non-arrogant friendly women, you’ll save tons more and get to live in other cool places!
A dating coach recommended it to me first. Dating scene in the Bay Area is awful for single males. Just get out... Women in almost all other parts of the world crave the typical Silicon Valley guy who has ambition, $, degrees, status, etc. But sadly there’s such an over-supply of these attributes in the Bay Area and an extremely skewed gender ratio that 49ers syndrome, and subsequently experiences like yours, are created.
One last thing, I’m currently in a Latin American country. As a guy with almost no action on Tinder/Bumble in the Bay area, I don’t even have time to reply to all the messages. (Given the little secret that Badoo is the shit here)
Instagram. Have a fun vibe going in your feeds.
That creates comparison and trouble in the subconscious mind. Not a good advice.
What kind of qualities are you looking for in a girl?
I am a very outdoorsy person, would prefer a girl who is willing to go out on hikes, biking, skiing etc... no hard requirements though
"no hard requirements though" Hmm unsure if: #1 Hikes, biking, skiing are not hard requirements #2 You are looking for a girl with no "hard" requirements If it's #2, then just order some viagra off eBay, it'll be much better.
If you are Indian, don’t even waste your time trying.
Haha this
I am indian and have pleased many lady friends 😂
Best way is to go through your friends. Ask if they have any female friends who are single, or try to hang out with them when with their other friends. Works if you have female friends or your friends gfs are chill hanging out.
Works only when you are young.
My friend circle is tightly knit... mostly know everyone
I meet them through Blind, just post an R4R
What’s R4R?
its a subreddit
Get out of the bay area
Sadly, not an option
Its always an option if you make it a priority