Outside of work I just watch TV and order DoorDash. I'm a homebody. I stopped drinking so don't go out anymore. Lunches with close friends every now and then. I don't like traveling much, and if I travel, I'm happy to just do a road trip and listen to podcasts and chill at the hotel in the evening. I'm a little insecure about all this. Are there women in the dating market that would be OK with their partner having this kind of lifestyle?
You sound totally normal
Having no close relationships or support system is a signal of poor mental health and also doesn’t do well for a relationship, as people need to depend on close friends and family to support them in trying times for the relationship. So, the lifestyle of not really being social isn’t the issue for a potential partner, it’s the above that i described
💯 Agreed. If you don’t have a support system you feel broken
I have a few close friends that I call and talk with on a daily basis. Used to meet them more often but now they live a little further away. I'm pretty happy with my support network currently though I should find more local friends I can hang out with in-person, that's true
So Sad, just be open for everything. Try to come out of your comfort zone that’s what I learned. If you are not, Be open and honest about your lifestyle when dating, and you'll likely find someone who appreciates and shares similar interests with you.
One piece of advice. Please dont force yourself to change just to date someone. You WILL not be consistent
You are leading the anti consumerism movement. More power to you 💪
Are there women who are okay with men who don’t have life changing adventures every week? Yeah, sounds totally normal and stable
boring men attract boring women
You achieved Nirvana my friend!! Congratulations
Older women will be more satisfied with this lifestyle. What's your age? Assuming you're in your 20s, I would encourage you to pick up an interesting hobby. Do something a little daring like getting a motorcycle, paragliding, etc.
I'm 34
White?
You gotta find some passion in life to do more! I mean don’t do it for the women, do it for yourself. You will thank yourself later.
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