Imagine the time when dating apps weren't a thing

15 years ago, for millions of years, there were no dating apps. Then came dating apps to provide another way to meet potential partners. unfortunately many folks gave up on all other ways and just started relying on dating apps. and that's where I see most of the complains on blind for both men and woman. dating apps sucks for women cause it's almost impossible to filter out men just based on photos. any guy can just create a profile and swipe right to virtually anyone. no social anxiety to overcome, no need to be "good enough". for men, it's impossible to display value just by 5 filtered photos. hence, even if there are multiple matches, it does not usually correspond to evolutionary social order of conventional relationships. because apps are so easy and low effort that I see most of my friends rely on that. and because it's so easy, folks start to rely solely on apps. and that's why you're not able to find love. just git gud and uninstall those apps. it's not that it's impossible to find love on apps, but use it in addition to usual dating skills, don't rely solely on it. best way to learn those skills is to delete those apps for an year. for starters, women, drop that handkerchief while walking on street and be suprized when it's pickup up and brought up you. there you go, a conversation starter. men, just start talking to that woman behind you in that long line you're standing in at Starbucks. ask for recommendation.