Ive seen the okCupid studies, things look really bad on paper... And I honestly see more WMAF than AMAF on the streets of the bay area... But I wonder, besides shorter stature on average/shy personality etc. is it really that bad here in the bay? Is the blame on media's unfavorable portrayal of asian men or are asian men themselves to blame. No trolling pls TC 250k
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I think it depends on who you think are judging— white girls or other East Asian girls or other races. I haven’t seen it be a serious issue w other asian women. I think a lot of it really comes down to genuine confidence (not the insecure reactively arrogant types that you see often in ppl who seem like they’re overcompensating for something) and genuine interest in women (I.e., really wanting to get to know them as ppl rather than just wanting them for sex or reassurance). And also, what’s wrong with being short and shy? If other ppl don’t like that, it’s cool too— we don’t have to and honestly can’t please everyone. Just like we have our own preferences, others are free to have theirs too. Doesn’t reflect badly on us :). You just need ONE person to see how awesome you are. I’m rambling but in general I don’t think the dating scene for East Asian men is that bad, especially here in the bay (imagine if we were in the middle of nowhere where we are the tiny minority!). Hang in there!
You know the 2 rules of datingsites/apps?
What are the two rules?
Rule 1 and 2: 1. Be attractive 2. Don’t be unattractive
It's bad all over the US. The age old stigma of Asian men being emasculated is still going strong. https://www.npr.org/templates/transcript/transcript.php?storyId=709948132
It’s quite bad in Bay Area. I’ve seen quite a bit of AMWF outside of SV (even Seattle is better). As an Asian male, I had 3 occurrences of Asian / mixed females hitting on me (trying to provide data points, not trying to flex)
Asian = East / Southeast not South in this context
This was a question....
I think dating is hard for everyone in the Male Area...
Is there a reason it would be worse for east asian males then asians from N/S/W? White guy seriously asking...
Asian culture is generally speaking pessimistic. I, an east Asian, will always think is harder for me than everyone else, including N/S/W.
Its worse for east asians compared to indians is because most indian girls date/marry indian guys, where most east asian girls in america, born or not, tend to date more white than asian
It's bad. Move to Asia
Asia has very low TC tho
Some companies have global pay?