Kind of cheated on
What do you do if you find out your partner is texting - with heavy compliments - somebody else? And it's not the first time (every now and then is somebody else, we already discussed the behaviour but keeps happening) And you have kids with this person. Do you confront him/her? Do you keep monitoring the situation silently? What else? Edit: I am female
She can gtfo. What beta cukc lets his wife text other guys in the first place?
OP I am female 🙄
This is an amazing exchange, textbook Blind. Someone did something wrong in a relationship and you're not explicitly told the genders? Oh, must be the woman 🤷♂️
Sorry bro, didn’t know she was married or in a relationship. I’ll ask her to stop.
What does that even mean Johnny?
Sharing is caring. Open is better than closed.
lol
So if you've discussed it already, what's the reason for them doing that? Is it just compliments? Or are you suggesting it's compliments leading to more? If it's just compliments, why does it bother you, assuming your partner is an attractive person who naturally evokes such reactions in others?
Not sure about the reason. Previously it was with a different woman. There are different ways to pay compliments. To me telling other girls how hot they look in a certain occasion is not acceptable.
Wow, this is bad, OP. What age are the kids?
1. I hope you didn't find out by snooping around (that only hurts trust). 2. If that's that's not how you found out, you're free to have a conversation with her about it but honestly, you are probably better served by addressing your apparent insecurity about your partner sharing compliments with someone. Is she someone who likes compliments? Have you had conversations about perhaps you not complimenting her enough ? (Also something she should address about a potential need for external validation). Can't offer actionable advice without more context
Marriage counseling is better than asking randomly on blind
Agree, but I am not there yet. I am just trying to figure out what is the best way to keep up and licking my wounds...
There’s no wound yet. Compliments are harmless
Seek counseling and maybe look for flaws on your side. Is your sex game getting weak? Are you not showing love, too focused on work?
If her TC is higher, enjoy the alimony. If your TC is higher, better lawyer up. That said, TC?
Beautiful people are commonly complimented but the truth is she comes home to you so it shouldn't matter what anyone else says to her. If your relationship is sound there's nothing another person can say or do to take her way from you. You are her human, and that is enough. If it isn't, then this a totally different conversation. I would suggest working out this insecurity with yourself since she (or anyone) won't be able to help you through it.
hit the gym, bulk up..
Stop trying to sell your shoes
lol.. don't try from windows machine though.. blue screen and crash...