More women put in the “bare minimum” than men
In social media all you see is women complaining that men do the bare minimum but in most relationships/dates the man is the one doing the romancing. Planning dates, buying flowers, buying gifts, paying for trips, etc etc While the women literally just shows up, looks pretty, and gets fucked Who in this scenario is doing the bare minimum? The one who just shows up or the one who does everything?
Women continue the human race. They create life. They are the deciders of if you get to continue your family line. Men do the bare minimum in the creation of life 😅 It’s not “fair” or “equal”. You have to win her over. A good woman will love you, spoil you, take care of you and motivate you to be the best man you can be. Married men consistently earn more money than single men.
Only less experienced will be winning over and chasing woman, playing stupid games. If there is no mutual respect and balance then “have a good day!” It is 100% better to stay single than deal with such toxicity
Sure, a guy should win a girl over but a girl should also win a guy over. All things should be balanced - it is in the best interest of men and women. If it’s solely on the guy to win her over, any smart man will immediately recognize there is an imbalance and will not want to play that game. So what you end up is a game where the winners are a bunch of losers.
Dood. A girl showing up to be a part of your plan, looking pretty and getting fucked is the best deal a man can get in life. Imagine a life where you have no one to make plans for to show up looking pretty and get fucked. Wtf do you need your TC for? Impress frat boys at a sausage fest?! Grow up.
Lmao no it’s not 😂😂 some of you men are so pathetic it’s hilarious. You obviously have not fucked enough beautiful women if you think sex is everything You know women can do more than just show up and get fucked right? There is a difference between an asset and liability If we’re in a casual relationship then who gives a fuck you can just show up I don’t care because I’m not committed. Getting into a relationship or marriage is a completely different story
It’s even more amazing that a simple observation like “I think women should contribute more to a relationship other than sex if they want to be taken seriously” is controversial. If I said “I think men should contribute more to a relationship other than money if they want to be taken seriously” would you agree or disagree?
“Does everything” = making reservations on opentable within 30seconds “Just show up” = 2-3 hours getting hair, makeup, outfit, nails, lashes, jewelry ready to go meet a random stranger who might end up SA or kidnap her. Grow up
^ THIS
Making reservation, paying for everything, giving a ride. Cleaning nails before that, getting a haircut, taking a shower, be ready go to date with random woman that might accuse you of rape, even though you have not even kissed and end up in prison wishing that you would be just kidnapped. What do you think about it? Does cleaning nails is not a big deal?
It is called manipulation. Don’t fall for it. You don’t owe anything to anyone, if they want you to care about them then they will make steps towards you. It is about balance, if you don’t want to go far from balance (keeping it minimum) then it is absolutely fine. Otherwise, you will get trapped in a limitless demands and drama. I made such mistake in the past with few ladies. Not anymore
Yup. The same manipulation as “a real man does X”. Idk how guys keep falling for this and then getting burned and then start to hate women. Don’t fall for the manipulation and you won’t have any resentment fellas
One of the reasons is “salami slicing tactics”. You say “yes” to one very small thing that is not a big deal for you, then after sometime to another, and eventually you end up in a situation when “you never do anything to me”