Tech IndustryJul 11, 2019
MicrosoftSwaggyP

Life advice

Hey everyone. I’d like to get some carrer and life advice. I’m currently working as a SWE and I’m bored out of my mind. I come into work, see some problems and voice my intuition but no one acts on it. I don’t act on it myself because I have no time or motivation for it (more on this later). A few weeks later, someone more senior on the team pulls some data and figures out that we should do X and it turns out that X is what I said before but I don’t get credit for it. In the end it bothers me, but I haven’t done anything because I still get stellar perf reviews and still write code like a good junior/mid level monkey. The reason why I don’t do anything extra at work because I spend my free time working on Embedded Systems and ML research. In 2 years, I have gotten accepted to a conference, a journal, and some more. Since I left school, I have been fortunate enough to keep in contact with my professors and former classmates and we have made great progress on this front. I’m torn on what to do with my career. I have expensive taste so I love getting paid. It’s even more enticing because I have to put so little effort, and I get a paycheck that pays my expenses, traveling, and great food. I’m a driven person in general and I feel like my desire to continue research outside of academia is a indicator that I would kill it doing my own startup (never give up attitude). At the same time, I have been doing research so maybe going back to school to do a PhD would be good for me. It’ll buy me a few years but then I don’t know what I would do after. Professorships and industry research positions are few and far between so I would hate to spend all that time broke and stressed just to end up in the same role or doing a startup that I could have started now. Another option that I thought about was applying for a research engineer role from now. But without multiple top tier conferences and a PhD I haven’t been able to get a single interview. All I know is that I shouldn’t stay in my current role. I get paid but my interest level is so low that it’s obvious I don’t want to be there. The only reason why I’m still here is because I still churn lines of codes regardless of my interest. I know that no one can answer this for me but what are some recommendations people have? Maybe there is a certain role I’ve over looked that I can get into? Maybe there’s some points about each path I’ve overlooked or misunderstand? Or maybe even someone reads this and went through the same conundrum and has a personal story that they’d like to share? YoE: 2 TC: 185k

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Microsoft 36C Jul 11, 2019

Life advice: most people don't read anything between the first and last paragraphs.

Nutanix saneep Jul 11, 2019

Life advice... In a forum such as blind with lots of stuffs to read on.. Be succinct as possible.

Oracle LarryzBalz Jul 11, 2019

Also proofread your stuff… Spell career correctly on your resume.

Google Bergey Sin Jul 11, 2019

Couple pieces of advice: 1) Don't do a PhD without a clear justification for the (enormous) loss of income. It's okay to do it if you want to become a researcher, most other reasons will lead to regret later. 2) Without solid evidence (data) that the problems you're pointing are more important that the least important thing your team is working on, you won't get very far. Intuition for what problems are important comes from experience, but a general rule of thumb is: does that issue impact people outside of my team who depend on my team (e.g. the company's users)? If not, it's probably not as important as you think. There are important exceptions to this rule, but that's a good place to start. 3) Be careful about tying your wellbeing to your job, be it a SWE position or PhD student lest you be perpetually dissatisfied. Find meaning in your life outside of work: friends, girlfriend/boyfriend, hobbies, travel, etc. and view work as a means to support you financially in enjoying your life. That's not to say you should do something you hate (this will damage your mental health) but be very careful about tying your identity to your work. Hope that helps. Best of luck to you OP, you're in a very enviable position and remember that whatever you choose, nothing terrible will come out of it.

Microsoft SwaggyP OP Jul 11, 2019

Thank you Bergey :)

E*Trade cbEV72 Jul 11, 2019

The work is meaning of life apart from procreation

E*Trade cbEV72 Jul 11, 2019

PhD is for science, unless you see yourself as a scientist don’t do PhD. Also it would help if you could see yourself not coding but contributing to the firms business and mission. That’s a tough one when at the bottom of .org chart

Microsoft HsvIidb Jul 11, 2019

Find a better team

Microsoft SwaggyP OP Jul 11, 2019

Wdym and how do you go about doing that?

Microsoft SwaggyP OP Jul 11, 2019

For example. When you interview at other companies, all you do is leetcode, get an offer and barely get an idea of what they are working on or the team culture.

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aVFF43 Jul 12, 2019

Work on a side project my friend- get paid while you build your own company; that is what I’m doing at least. It’s not as much about expensive tastes as it is about not wanting to go back to ramen

Adobe Spidey🕸️ Jul 23, 2019

SwaggyP >SpicyP?