What do you mean by no love left ? Most arranged marriages start with no love and they develop love. What's the issue in your marriage?
We have been together for 9 years and we don’t really align on basic things. He doesn’t like socializing much, and is extremely messy. I have OCD and like hanging out with friends and family. These are trivial issues, however when we argue, nobody wants to bow down and we land up not talking to each other for months.
Not talking to each other for months? Someone has some issues. But yeah divorce seems the best given no kids.
Better be sure you don't want kids.
Life post divorce is how you want to have it forward , why do you need others perspectives , to each their own , what matters is whatever makes you content.
It doesn't hurt to know what other people's perspective after divorce is/ how life for them has turned out, after divorce. 'How we want it' is not how things always transpire. Else, OP would not be divorcing in the first place.
Not easy, if you wanted to hear that. Yes, i have seen singles in their early thirties and they have f*** up their mental health due to being single and lonely. You being social butterfly, is not going to be easy. "Sit and solve" is better than "run and repeat".
Depends. Will you live in the USA or India? Life after divorce is way easier in the USA. In India you will get tons of judgement and negative comments. You will have to grow a thick skin. I would still say that divorce is better than being in a bad marriage, be true to yourself. Just preparing you for what's out there Try marriage counseling though before you divorce
Why the qwerty name was changed to dancefood. That's a bigger question
Cause I wanted to add more character to my anonymous identity 🤣
Seems like OP is paranoid and so poor husband is suffering
Will give you another side of the story. We should have divorced, but we didn't. Things keep getting progressive WORSE. You will long for your current days. Kids come into picture. That's a trap you will never recover from. Love has not come back no matter what we try. If anything we both have stopped trying. You will build life you won't want and it will get harder to get out of it. My suggestion is, if the love has died, give separation a chance. See if you feel relieved or bad by the thought of separating.
Telugu?
Life Post divorce and that too with a tech job and mid thirties... I will say, it is a place you don't want to be in..... Work on your current relationship which is much much easier thing to do. You already know the real toot cause "No one bows down" .. What are you doing to do different anyway in a new marriage post divorce, DO THAT now with your spouse and make the marriage right
What does a tech job have to do with this? Is it because job instability and layoffs nowadays?
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