India
Yesterday
943
Modi is a legend, will be remembered for centuries to come
Working Parents
Yesterday
889
What do you think is wrong with a kid who got rejected by 9 colleges?
Tech Industry
Yesterday
2721
Quitting this Slave life
Working Parents
13h
1025
Closed now - thank you all
World Conflicts
Yesterday
846
Why are Muslims nations not accepting Palestine 🇵🇸 refugees?
People say that the bay area has a high male:female ratio so that means women can get their pick of successful single men who can’t a date but since moving here I found that is not true at all That stat is too broad and doesn’t account for the specific demographics of those who work in tech. What they left out is that 1. all the women are wealthy so they are all more beautiful than normal because of spending on health and beauty and 2. tech companies are like 50% Asian so you have to compete with thousands of more feminine, FOB Asian girls Every man even the nerdy or liberal guys I see already has a pretty Asian women on their arms or a sun-kissed white beauty beside them. Only men who are single are the young fresh grads still too focused on math, CS, and their career to care about relationships and only want hookups if that I am going to move to the middle states instead where it is less diverse and I can be surrounded by white men who find me a novelty even if I grew up in the West
🍿
Have you considered dating a non white guy? That might increase the size of your pool. Or maybe great guys find a red flag in you and don’t want to marry you? Or great guys think they can do better than you for some reason?
Yes! I find white men really hot but I’m fine with Asian and black men too lol. My dad is Asian and I love him lol. But in the bay the Asian men are either married already, too focused on math or CS instead of romance (FOBs). A lot Asian Americans kind of hate Asian women and prefer hookups or White women more so.. Black people are cool, its harder to meet them though because so much fewer are college educated and professional because of class and discrimination Only people scared of are Indian and Middle Eastern people because their culture can be misogynistic. I know that its a generalization but I’m not perfect, I have prejudices, and I dont want to hurt myself. But if I meet a kind person that I can eventually trust then that would be fine! I think I am too clingy I lost my bf because of that, and I am working on that. But yea as I said guys here know they can do better because they have so many amazing options here
Lol what tons of guys would love to meet you. Only issue is you_d like the TC
Unrelated question, why so many white guys have asian girlfriend in in Bay Area?
Asians worship white.
They can't get white girls. White girls are the top of the dating pool. Usually it's a lower tier white male with an ok Asian girl.
Have you ever lived in the Midwest? It’s a cultural sinkhole of low levels of education, small minded people, and nothing to do. But otherwise it’s great. There’s a reason the vast flow of people have migrated from there to the coasts, not the other way around.
Really? :( Maybe I can find someone and then we can move back to the coast lol
Live in or near a city with a major university if you want culture and educated people.
If you cant find a BF in the city with most men in the US then the problem is you.
That’s not terribly helpful
also true. unless you're extremely ugly or very overweight, you won't have any trouble in Bay Area as a women.
r/nicegirls
Well you can always date fob Indian men, plenty of supply
Story of my life
Are you chubby? Maybe it's the time to eat healthy and exercise. Do you give up easily? Maybe install tinder and lower your expectations. I personally find it hard for any woman in tech not being able to find a male partner. Spend more time on yourself and meeting more guys.
The middle states? You mean the Midwest? It is a high male:female ratio but doesn’t mean the quality of men is high. But I found a good one. He happens to be from the Midwest.
Really? I am really happy for you! I don’t care about quality of men or TC that much as long as he is well educated and we can afford a safe and comfortable life (like 100k is more than enough). I think what is more important that he loves you and will love your children and will stay with you through old age. That is the most important
@tTFN31 That mindset alone makes you a good catch for many serious guys. Good luck.