I cried today infront of my Manager. There has been a lot of pressure for me and manager is giving me the constant termination threats that I could not control myself and suddenly I cried! I really don’t know what can I do next, my manager also left the zoom after this? I don’t know how I’m gonna do now!#depression #burnout #mentalhealth
Nothing. You show up to the job tomorrow.
…and grind leetcode
There is a special place in hell for pos like your manager.
I am so sorry this is happening to you. Hope you find a better job.
Phase out while you look for another job.
Look for another job ASAP. In the meantime, don’t let such a terrible manager get you down. I hate people like that. You are worth way more than your manager’s attitude towards you.
You are going through a tough phase. But remember it is just a phase in a long career and life. We all have been there or will be there at some phase in our lives too. Hang tight, set up a meeting with your manager and discuss about realistic expectations that you can achieve and some timelines to do so. Buy some time and in the meanwhile start preparing for roles outside. All the best
Well said!
Are you on visa?
I know how terrifying this can be, especially when you are in visa. Consider applying for FMLA to get some breathing room and apply for jobs. DM me if you want to talk. You got this OP.
What's FMLA
How does one get a FMLA?
Quit
You gotta stand up for yourself, be a bigger bully than the bully
Spot on. That's the way to survive!
I’ve seen this personally and all it does is create more POS managers in the workforce. Leave and find a place that isn’t full of assholes.
Look for a new job
This. Get a decent company with good culture. You don’t need FAANG or leetcode companies right away. Just good old nice people company. Get your mental health together first and later you can aim for what you’d like
Come to Bloomberg!