My boyfriend of 2 years is super supportive and understanding most of the times, I give him a tough time in terms of getting cranky or behaving rudely sometimes, he keeps his cool and tries to calm me . Is it justified if we get married I feel in this scenario I am taking undue advantage of him.There's pressure mounting from both the sides of family to get married soon, maybe that's another reason that's adding stress to our relationship. We both want to get married to each other, but I wanted to make sure he isn't jumping to wrong conclusions given behavior.P.S, I am trying and changing bit by bit to be a better person to have a great future together by controlling my anger issues and trying to think from his perspective as well. what other factors should we consider before jumping to decide if we are meant to be together?
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Dude with that reply no wonder you work at google
It's a journey, not a destination. But I think you have the right mindset to start the journey.
Chances are that you'll never change. You need to be sure that he'll be able to put up with this shit forever
I disagree. You cannot change others but you can change yourself. OP sounds sincere in wanting to change
She CAN change. Don’t discourage her with that toxic shit.
You seem self reflective and honest. You are ready to take responsibility for your actions. Please have a heart to heart conversation with him. I feel any man would prefer a woman who accepts her mistakes, is honest, is appreciative of him, even if she has faults than plenty of worse off options. If you feel insecure say that to him.
Trying being less of a shitty person
Marriage is all about sacrifice and understanding. No matter how many years you spend you will have conflicts. Question u need to ask to urself , Am i ready for sacrifice.
Ask him his expectations of you. Is either of your decisions based on a hope that the other person will change for better (read different) in future? Then maybe it’s not the time for marriage yet. But if both of you take each other for what you are right now, then go for it! That way, there will not be any regret in your future if things don’t turn out as expected. And about changing behaviors/self improvement, that’s human nature. But you know that whatever either of you change to be, you both will change together, in the same set of circumstances and experiences and trust me, that’ll be acceptable for both of you.
Do you need a guy that calls you out and puts up with less of your shit?
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