Married to a girl who had several physical relationship before marriage
I just came to know that my newly wed wife had many physical relationship before marriage. I asked this before marrying her but she didn't answer / spoke truth about her relationship. Now this is hurtful to me as she left those guys only to find next rich guy. I feel like she married to me only because other guys rejected her and she found money with me. What should I do? Divorce or give her a chance?
How rich are you
Get over it.
Divorce if she lied
Tons of people had physical relationships. If she didn’t cheat on you then it’s not a big deal
Which country are you from?
Hahaha, I know where this is going.
This is a valid question, depending on the context it could be anywhere between a matter of life/death or nothing.
What’s your problem if she had sex with other guys BEFORE marriage? Did you not go out with girls before? Get over it. Make it a big deal if she cheats on you now.
Seems like she lied to you (probably by omission). If you think this is a dealbreaker, get out. Life is too short to be married unhappily. And vet your next arranged marriage more carefully on things that are important to you.
She didn’t lie. The op said she refused to answer. He still married her. Then he finds out the answer, probably from her. Did he continue to nag her about it? Probably. Now he’s mad and contemplating divorce. Pretty fucked up on his part.
Well OP said she didn’t speak the truth, whatever that means.
Get a grip. Feelings are not facts, and that you are feeling hurt to hear your partner had other partners before you has you in a tailspin. Perhaps what you really feel is that since she had multiple partners she doesn’t love you and therefore is only using you for money. Take some time to calm down before you act rashly. It might be good to talk to a couples therapist
"Feelings are not facts" - I am so going to borrow this.
Depends, you want a divorce because she married you for money or you are mad she had sex with others before marriage. Makeup your mind. Are we still living in a society where a girl has to be virgin to prove that she is loyal and not greedy . Grow up
Depends...what’s her TC?
Approximately .5**total net worth of all exes