Missed out on Dating
Between the ages of 21-27 (I’ll be 28 in a month), I had a lot of women show interest in me but I never had the guts to ask them out. I saw a post by a 24 year old feeling bad about never having dated and all the instances where women showed interest in me replayed in my head. If I could go back, I’d ask them out with a boldness never seen before but those days are long gone. Am I doomed? (I’m still as fit as I was and look the same -slightly taller/muscular/confident- EXCEPT that I’m no longer in school where I can put my confidence to use because of the availability of gazillions of members of the opposite sex) How can I reclaim the experiences I missed out on in my early-mid twenties? TC: 190k
You still have plenty of chances. Het your confidence together and act fast
You mean it’s that simple?
How to be approachable? My friends says I have a resting b1tch face 😑
You say you would talk to them but you wouldn’t. Because if you actually believed that you would go make opportunities in your life right now
Maybe I wouldn’t but I would start to
arranged marriage
We don’t do that here, sadly
There's always a first time
You are doomed ❤️
Poor me. At least I can focus on money 😢
you’re only 28 you’re still plenty young
People at this age are like getting married and having kids, no?
Dude not everyone has to have the same path in life. Don’t compare your winter season in life to others’ summers
OP, Let me tell you something. You ALWAYS have more time than you think you do.
I highly doubt. Time seems to just fly by
Stop being a baby
Are you a biological male? If so, the women probably thought you were worthless to them back then anyways.
I’m male, obviously 🥲
28 is so young. You should go out and meet people more often. Be confident, have a hobby, have a good dressing sense and posture. Being able to talk about things other than work and being funny really helps. Just don't be creepy - no stares, stalking, or texting multiple times if there is no response. If you like someone, try talking with them a few times, ask for a coffee. If you like them, follow up by asking for a lunch a few days later. Good luck.
The confidence part is what I’m trying to build. I have no issues with the rest since I have hobbies that I pursue and women feel comfortable around be in general. What I don’t have is the balls to say “Hey, let’s grab drinks/coffee …..etc”
That username bro
Very representative of a guy who didn’t have the balls to ask women out - pathetic
Dont beat yourself up..its never too late ;)