I always had a feeling that people only call or ping me when they needed something. So I ran an experiment to confirm this - I didn't ping anyone for 1.5 months. I only heard back from 1-2 folks. Including a girl I was going out with, which I thought was perfect match. I mean it could have a been as simple message like "Hey , are you dead". I mean what happened to that trend saying 'Whats up, How you doing ? ". At end of the experiment, I uploaded some random stuff on social media and so many folks started commenting on that. I mean do just people care about social media? Zuck has really destroyed the social fabric of the society. YOE - 4 years TC - 170K
Zuck didn’t destroy anything. People choose to be this way
I did same experiment but for only 2 weeks and I did receive calls and messages from old friends and we were in no contact situation. Received calls from Germany too. In those 2 weeks, I took care of myself, every-time when I was in front of mirror, I loved my image. I did gym extensively and it was only my time. I was extremely happy and I was like.. “I love life and life loves me”… and guess what I received calls and messages because I loved myself. In your experiment, you didn’t love yourself at all.. so please heal yourself. Forgive people. You are unique and your life is precious. Then see the magic. I am 1000% sure that it will work and you will thank me. Best of luck 😊
I brought a pick up and suddenly my phone rings every friday evening for weekend pick up and free lunch 😂😂 Now i tell them had to aell the pick up
This experiment would be introverts dream. But I know I will never go so long without hearing from someone I care. My brother checks up on me if he doesn’t hear from me for 3 days. We talk once or twice a week and I love that I share this bond with him. I have 2 friends that are close to me who call me every 2-3 weeks.
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At least you’ve heard back from some people. I’m practically a ghost on social media and only use it keep in contact with former colleagues and family. I don’t think I’ve been called or pinged my anyone outside of my immediate family ever. Even when I upload to social media, it’s only the same people that care to like the post and comment. Just accept that you have 1-2 people who are actually willing to check up on you; not everyone has that privilege. TC: 105K