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I got into a relationship about 2 years ago, in the USA. Both of us are immigrants. Our relationship is pretty good, ups and downs here and there, but our sex life is not that great, NGL. Being very honest, it’s because of me. I don’t have as much libido as much as I used to anymore. I do not know if it is work, Visa issues, responsibilities, but I lost interest in everything colorful in life. For a family emergency, both of us had to travel to our home country (same for the both of us). Here, all of a sudden, I have strong urges for her, it’s like the gates have been opened and I transformed into my younger self, full of life and youth. I now find everything enjoyable on god’s green earth. Now I’m scared that I will go back being dull and uninterested after the trip. Anyone else experience this? #dating #relationships TC- 250k YOE- 4
Dont know which country u r from - but I am from India and I used to feel that way. Not with libido or attraction. But generally i feel i fall into depression like state more often in US. Earlier I thought i was not getting enough sunlight…. And thought since I eat western food and not so much spice these days it is altering my micro-nutrient balance. I really dont kmow…
No, it's just your connection to your motherland is strong.
+1 on this. When I go back to the home country, I just feel so much lighter, eat and sleep better. Here I struggle with insomnia, stress etc
Seriously get your yearly check up done. This seems like nutrient/lifestyle related issue. Heard about it from friends and it impacts everyone differently.
You have vitamin D deficiency, most likely!
Stress can impact your libido. This might be a good sign for you to find a partner improve your libido
Reduce your stress dude
If you're happier, why not stay?