Physically abusive bipolar wife but wonderful kids
What do I do dears my heart breaks everyday. My kids love me but my wife is totally crazy with severe anger problem, has zero respect for me and abuses me and my parents everyday because of crazy reasons. She hits me (just broke her phone today hitting my head). I left home but my son cried so hard I came back just for him.
Talk to a divorce lawyer and document these things. Also see if you can get custody
Break your phone by hitting her head as well. Let her also feel the pain.
She has threatened to call cops on me and report domestic violence in the past. She hits me and expects to react to it so she can call 911
🙄😨 Feeling sorry for you.
Document, document, document. In theory divorce law is neutral but in practice women have a great deal more credibility. Nobody should put up with abuse and if you can document the abuse well enough to prove in court you can probably get the kids and supervised visitation. Also if she literally bipolar is she on meds for it? Or if you don't know have you gotten her to a shrink for it to find out?
Out of all the cases I've seen so far, the only pattern i could pull out is that the assholes generally have more credibility, male and female.
Strong Meds for her
Send her back to India to live with her parents
What made you think they are Indians?
50/50 chance, Right?
She has symptoms but she will absolutely no way agree to it or go to a doc. She may hack me up if I tell her/ask her to get medical advice
Could probably get a court to order a psych eval as part of a divorce. If she refuses to go then, that should work in your favor for custody
Everyone has good ideas but here’s a different idea...remember you have agency. You have the ability to take action instead of react. Look for her patterns and needs then proactively meet/exploit/sabotage/manipulate them. It’s not a fun game to play but it’s better than getting hit in the head with an iPhone. What makes you think she’ll hack you up? It’s important to first figure out if she’s psychotic, a sociopath, or just angry before you develop a plan. But in any case there is usually always a way to end the other person’s abuse. Just stay safe.
You need to slap that bitch.
Set up a nanny cam. Something to record her abuses of you as evidence. Leave her and take the kids. She is dangerous to you and your kids. My heart goes out to you. Be smart. Do this right. In time you will be free. You have to leave her. Your kids will understand one day. Also see how you can commit her so she can get a psych evaluation.
I would agree with this but check your laws first. 2 party consent or something like it could make it not usable
Call the cops and turn her in
This. I had a girlfriend who used to do this, and i didn’t turn her in and waited until she left home instead. In your case, no way out. Turn her in or divorce. When men does it, it is violence, and remember women and men are equal. Stop this shithole, and save your kids from that maniac.