Misc.Jan 14, 2022
Googlehunterone

Sending money to family abroad

I have family in Argentina (uncle&aunt, cousins, and grandma) who are poor. For example, one of my cousins monthly wage is $400-$800 a month, depending on the exchange rate you use. Sending something like $10k a year would be very beneficial for them (I.e cousin could go back to college, uncle could pay for home improvements, could upgrade grandma’s home, etc) How should I go about this, should I give straight cash, should I pay for things I think are worth it? What pitfalls should I avoid when doing this? Should I start low and ramp up money? Also, what is the best way of sending money? Sending over traditional services results in official exchange rate which is half of street exchange rate of USD->ARS Age 24 Yoe 2.5 TC 350k

Two Sigma k95a99 Jan 14, 2022

Just a guess. People may take granted and one day if you don’t send money, they blame you. So if money has a purpose (Eg for someone to get to college), then you may somehow manage the situation.

Uber bjorn 🥷 Jan 14, 2022

For argentina now, black market exchange rate is Far better. So take cash and have it xchanged

Google hunterone OP Jan 14, 2022

This is the easiest way but I would only travel once a year to Argentina. Not a bad option but curious if other options exist.

Microsoft Chasing💸 Jan 14, 2022

Cryptocurrencies??

Microsoft 👨‍✈️ Obvious Jan 14, 2022

I would ask them to take the initiative of enrolling and then sending you a tuition receipt that you can reimburse. Speaking from experience, sending straight cash tends to make people feel cushioned and as a result they don’t work hard to make it on their own. Just my $0.02.

Dropbox Jyyn36 Jan 14, 2022

This could be interesting. There are credit cards for international travel that don’t charge an exchange rate, maybe you could pay directly over the phone/mail etc.?

Google hunterone OP Jan 14, 2022

School is free but traveling + work is 12 hours a day for her making school difficult if not impossible

Spotify nY#8cF Jan 14, 2022

Send bitcoin on lightning network. Zero fees and instant. Use an open source wallet of course. Bitcoin adoption is high there due to inflation

Flipkart Hers Jan 14, 2022

If you want to help them do it selflessly without any expectations. otherwise you’ll get hurt in case any instances of ungratefulness contributing 10% to charity is a good thing just think of it as a selfless service and do it. besides no monetary help pay their school fees and other expenses so that you know it’s getting utilised for good 👍

Google hunterone OP Jan 14, 2022

Yeah I don’t expect anything in return, just feel like if they can have better life without affecting my life much it is worth it

Amazon PSCq61 Jan 14, 2022

I have a USD bank account back home (not Argentina) and send money over there. It's a joint account with a family member. Then they take the dollars and exchange it themself.

Google hunterone OP Jan 14, 2022

This is what I’m thinking is the best option, only caveat being that it is hard to trust the government to not steal your money at some point in the future, even if they leave it alone for now. They have a history of creating currency controls out of thin air.

Tesla LXvj51 Jan 14, 2022

My suggestion is that you say you want to help with a specific project and only that. Also, going home once a year is good so I'd pick something you prefer it that you know will have value and start doing it. Make sure there is a time limit and don't ask for receipts like Microsoft. You want to help not build resentment by asking people for proof before you send. Ask that your cousin start school while you cover expenses and if it costs 4 years say you can sponsor 4 years @ X amount. It isn't your problem if the money gets wasted. You did your part.

IBM r3999p Jan 14, 2022

Very kind of you to share.

Qualtrics lucifer2.0 Jan 14, 2022

We send money to family using Ria. Get good exchange rate, i suggest checking tax rules too. Where I send (india) my parents don’t have to pay any taxes. Also, it’s nice of you to think about your family.

Meta ♾♾♾♾♾♾♾ Jan 14, 2022

Send it out if love as a form of charity and you’ll sleep comfortably without needing anything in return. Ria / money gram are okay but there are limits. Taking cash would be a good idea especially with the 10k limit.