RelationshipsNov 1, 2019
ToyotaNullGfExep

Should I ask out my coworker

We work on totally separate teams, but we do cross each other every now and then and do a little chithat, she is a really cool girl, although I think she might just be like that to everyone, if she says no I don't think it would be a case of harrassment since after that I would just leave her alone, I don't think I would be getting fired for that. Not really sure what to do. I was just thinking to ask her see the joker movie. My social circle pretty much shrink down after college so I don't have a lot of options outside of work.

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Apple ST8Pr1d3 Nov 1, 2019

You need to consult Blind for this?

Google Ben Dover. Nov 1, 2019

I sent my Camry for service. Why is it taking so long. Please do the needful.

Microsoft haAM87 Nov 1, 2019

Blind has literally led to the extinction of this phrase. I don’t see this anywhere anymore. It’s kinda sad

Bloomberg F.U. Money Nov 1, 2019

Sad it is not. What’s sad is that I still see the phrase “very less” everywhere. Can somebody take care of that too?

Google Devil Nov 1, 2019

Biggest risk in life is not to take one at all

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elonbruhsk Nov 1, 2019

Movies are a bad first date. It’s hard to talk to the other person during a movie

Qualcomm dynasty001 Nov 1, 2019

So tandem skydiving ?

Toyota NullGfExep OP Nov 1, 2019

What's a good first date?

Cisco 🦙 Alpaca Nov 1, 2019

Joker for the first date? Sounds like a shitty idea

SoFi pingus Nov 1, 2019

Are you willing to quit your job if things go bad? Are you able to stay friends if she ends up not liking you after one or two dates? If yes I say go for it.

SoFi pingus Nov 1, 2019

Also don't ask her to the joker, or a movie. Ask her to an arcade or bowling or a hike or something where you can talk.

Autodesk ratts Nov 1, 2019

Dont shit where you eat. If things go south you’re fucked.

Twitter pfI842X Nov 1, 2019

To add to this, it makes dealing with promotion a lot tougher? What happens if you’re promoted above them or vice versus? What if one of you becomes a manager over the other? Waaaaay too risky to date a coworker

Travelport buttnpushr Nov 1, 2019

Lol copypasta. People date coworkers all the time despite shitty internet wisdom

Fast Enterprises lodoxjs8 Nov 1, 2019

Ask her to get drinks and then move it to your place afterwards

Morgan Stanley MSC007 Nov 1, 2019

Asking her out is overrated. Instead, follow her around for like 4 months. Learn her habits. Her likes. Dislikes. Her inner circle. Befriend them. Once you’ve done all that, you can move on to the next step. Follow her out one night. Casually run into her at whatever location you end up at. Strike up a conversation. Her friends will know and like you by this point. You’ll have an excuse to hang with her friend group. She’ll love how you guys share the same interests and hobbies. Boom. She’s now your girlfriend. Wait about 35-40 years before telling her how you guys really met.

SAP mjgatp Nov 1, 2019

I'd be wary about this advice though. Unless you can do it naturally, and she already likes you to some extent, I'd advise against it. Speaking from personal experience as a woman.

Doximity nxbz39 Nov 1, 2019

Is this the definition of creeping? :D