Tech IndustryOct 14, 2023
AmazonI’m here🧸

Should I quit?

My team is incompetent and my manager is one of the worst people I’ve ever met. For context, my team was mainly hired with a bunch of people new to role so there’s been alot of issues. Our team compares horribly to other teams in our region(numbers wise…all the numbers lol). However, I really like the job itself and the company as a whole. I’ve been trying to switch teams for months but my manager is actively blocking any lateral transfers and promotions that have come my way. If I was bad my job, I would get it but I’m literally the most efficient and organized on the team. I rarely make miss on anything and if I do it’s minor. I think it might be age discrimination because I’m also the youngest on the team and I’ve heard some of my team talking about how they don’t want to see someone younger than them be more successful(not that I’m successful) but I’m the most financially stable. Ex. Some coworkers live paycheck to paycheck due to family and can’t move for opportunities due to family so it keeps them from growing. I don’t have those things so I invest my money instead. So the age discrimination thing noteworthy for context. But regardless, I think my manager is trying to push me out of Amazon and I can’t really report them because I have no proof. When they said they weren’t going to approve any promotions they said it in person and surely my next promotion was blocked. I’m in a non-tech role but no team will take me because of whatever she’s saying to them. Should I just leave or is there another path I’m not seeing? Update: I quit😭

Google ccTV424 Oct 14, 2023

Feels like a troll post

Amazon I’m here🧸 OP Oct 14, 2023

It’s not…

Amazon tdhcdee Oct 14, 2023

So everyone around you sucks and you are the only one great at your job? The thing is unless you are an LE, you should be able to move internally.

Amazon I’m here🧸 OP Oct 14, 2023

Pretty much, my team was mainly hired as a bunch of people new to role so there’s been alot of issues

Meta NSChamp Oct 14, 2023

How was your manager’s employee survey report? (Pulse or whatever you call at Amazon)

Amazon I’m here🧸 OP Oct 14, 2023

Are you asking if I’m in focus? If so I’m not

Amazon I’m here🧸 OP Oct 14, 2023

My last rating was high bar

Walmart xfd Oct 14, 2023

How did your manager block you? Send the evidence to HR or skip manager.

Amazon I’m here🧸 OP Oct 14, 2023

I really don’t have much evidence because no hiring manager is willing to tell me what was said. They just tell me to talk to my manager for more information and then I get no information from my manager

Cargill CPGPM Oct 17, 2023

Yeah this is common. Current manager is the first person I go to when considering a new hire. Right or wrong, if the feedback is bad you’re most likely not getting the next role. Your current manager could be blocking you because they can’t afford to lose you. I’d have a pretty frank conversation with them on what you need to do to be ready for the next role and agree to a timeline. Bring their skip into the discussion as well.

Amazon YCjQ40 Oct 14, 2023

Manager can’t block you. If you get an offer from another team the only thing that can block the transfer is if you’re in Focus. Also what makes you think you’re the best one on the team and what evidence do you have that you’re being discriminated against due to being young. To me this sounds like a troll post, or a lot of context is left out or you’re just delusional about your actual performance and looking to blame someone.

Amazon I’m here🧸 OP Oct 14, 2023

Managers can block you. Every interview and coffee chat for me resulted in “Okay, everything looks good I just need to reach out to your manager before we proceed”. Also my rating was the best. It’s not a troll post my team is literal garbage… it’s alarming. Our regional ratings have been on the bottom for months

Meta TsDI14 Oct 14, 2023

I don’t know about Amazon specifically but bad managers definitely can and will block you, especially if they have bad enough rep that they won’t be able to easily replace you. Meta has some good managers, but mostly sociopath empire builders.

New
xrrF06 Oct 14, 2023

How long have you been there? How does your team feel about your manager? When you say “my team is incompetent” makes you sound arrogant, however, they might just know how to play the corporate game well. Also, age discrimination is a thing but could you be insecure? I’ve been the youngest and oldest before, and I did feel the gap. But I tried my best to adjust for my own personal comfort. If you hate it that much, seek a new job. If you get paid well and you can hang on, I would save money for now. Then slowly start to find a new job or wait until your manager leaves. The only thing you shouldn’t do is talk bad about them or become the toxic coworker.

Amazon I’m here🧸 OP Oct 14, 2023

I’ve been on the team for 7 months and they’re scared of her. Literally our new hire what crying everyday the first week and said she was going to admit herself. I’ve heard my team talking about how they don’t want to see someone younger doing better than them(not sure why they said that in front of me but I figure it’s something to take in account)

Apple mvTg72 Oct 14, 2023

What’s your YOE?

Amazon I’m here🧸 OP Oct 14, 2023

2 years

Amazon hejdnfheo Oct 14, 2023

Time to interview for another company op. Was in the same situation where I had a toxic manager. Jumping to meta now

Meta TsDI14 Oct 14, 2023

Lol you’re in for a sad surprise if you’re expecting better from meta

Amazon hejdnfheo Oct 14, 2023

As long as my manager doesn’t deny my pto and verbally assault me for not doing amazon internal KNET brainwashing videos then i will be fine. My ex manager at amazon denied my pto couple times

Meta TsDI14 Oct 14, 2023

Yeah it’s really unfortunate when you get a garbage manager. Switch teams/managers if you can, or else time for a new job. Don’t waste even 6 months of your career with a crap manager that won’t coach or advocate for you.

Amazon I’m here🧸 OP Oct 14, 2023

Yeah I figured, it just sucks because I actually like the company and role

Meta TsDI14 Oct 14, 2023

Yup it happens a lot. I appreciated many ICs, but many managers behaviors would be criminal in any non-work settings.

Amazon QGaE33 Oct 14, 2023

When you brought up ageism, you lost all sympathy. You’re toxic too, stay where you are.

Amazon I’m here🧸 OP Oct 14, 2023

I’ve literally heard my team talking about how they don’t want to see someone younger doing better than them(not sure why they said that in front of me but I figure it’s something to take in account)

Google goterga Oct 14, 2023

Wdym “they WANT to see someone younger doing better than them”? You said that twice.. how is that a bad thing?