No more emotional abuse No more sleep abuse No more guilt tripping No more being cheated on No more compensating for lazy partner I can spend my money how I want I can live where I want No more couples therapy No more guilt over eating unhealthy one day No more guilt after having 1 cocktail in an evening No more bearing 100% of the financial burden for 2 people with no compensation Bye Felicia $270
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Gratz dude. I want to be like you, but can't. Kid needs mom and dad, and I don't want to split my wealth
As someone who grew up with parents that clearly saw each other as roommates after a certain point, get a divorce. Whether you realize it or not, kids pick up on *everything* and it will affect how their brain develops if they don’t grow up in a loving household. Source: still dealing with mental bullshit at 32 that I’m working on and struggled with self confidence my whole life (much better in recent years, but not perfect) because I grew up in this kind of household.
You’ll be more than happy to spilt the wealth when the pain is high enough. Just do it prior to year 10 if in CA.
Without kids, divorce is just like a breakup.
You’re so woven by Toyota It’s a breakup with money 💰
Yesssss
What happened?
The final trigger was that a year ago she had done some abusive stuff (spit in my face, charged at me, kicked hole in door). In response to all that I kicked her butt (literally) once. Not pretty on both sides. At some point recently she brought it up and needed me to apologize for it all again. I essentially said I’m sorry but don’t feel that guilty given it was mutual toxic, and I didn’t start any of it. She spent the rest of the marriage trying to convince me and my therapist I’m an abuser and that she’s innocent. Also she cheated on me
Damn. I’m sorry this happened. How did you guys get married and what was the progression?
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Please explain what happened and the lessons for the never married like me. Could you have predicted this outcome based on what you saw when you were dating, in hindsight? Also: what did she study? And why are you bearing 100% of the financial burden?
yeah same… but he mentioned about her cheating so that is a big NO
For me: you never fully know someone's inside world or how they are changing over time. Even if communication is good, you can't control the direction someone wants to take in life. One day you're working towards a family, doing all the things.. the next, not. It happens
Do you have to pay alimony or no
Yay!!!👏👏
Dude I needed this today. Thanks
You admitted to beating your wife in the comments, but you want us to feel bad for you?
Sounds like self defense 🤷🏻♂️ Equal rights, equal lefts (hooks)
He admitted to defending himself against an aggressive person is what I read. Spitting on someone is assault full stop, married or not. Also likely domestic violence. Charging and breaking things? Sounds unstable. Who knows all the details here, but anybody that spits in my face is at the very least getting equal treatment. Stop giving abusive women a pass.
Congrats
I'm currently waiting for Detroit become human so I can buy a robot waifu 😊
Marriage is not just about money and control, its 2 people coming together for life and raising successful kids and enjoying life and respecting each other. You should have never married in the first place when you are thinking that I am financially supporting some other person. Sometimes you end up with a wrong person, whether it is you or your spouse - who knows? At least you have a choice to choose the right person in the first place.