My wife works at a place with a 9-5 job. Due to my Facebook job bad wlb, I cannot spend time with her she wants to divorce me (yoe:3) my TC:150k , her’s 100k What should I do?
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Do you have a job? Why cant u spend time with her? Your post is not complete
He said he is at Facebook with bad WLB
Change job dude
Do you want to spend time with her?
I’m at FB and have fine WLB: you need to set boundaries, or transfer teams. Also if she wants to divorce... I don’t know what else is going on in your marriage, but I don’t think she’s a good match for what you are doing- and it’s a different question whether you want to continue doing or not. When I worked long hours in startups trying to build things and make a name for myself wife understood it was overall better in the long run for our family. Divorce due to WLB (if it is solely that) is some petty BS that would make me concerned for what happens next time there’s any hardship in your marriage
This isn’t hardship. If you’re an SDE working for FB you have your pick of companies and there is no need to settle for bad WLB. If he can’t find time to spend with his wife, maybe she feels he doesn’t really love her and just loves his job. I’ve seen many many people get divorced or this exact reason.
She sounds flighty tbh. After seeing what so many immigrant parents went through growing up... this seems like a trifling problem if they can’t work through it.
divorce her think what if u dont hv a job. then she would divorce u at first shot
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Ya unfortunately she probs never did fully loved you, just went along with the marriage bc you're a safe pick. Too bad you didn't pick it up and break it off early.
Bad wlb for 150k.. get the fuck out of fb and find something better
It’s not FB job ! It’s amount of time you dedicate to girl ! If u find another and done dedicate time what’s the use
Not. Worth. It. Quit FB now and focus on your marriage. Your job environment is toxic. Next is your health. Stop now.
Spouse sounds pretty toxic too, maybe he’s using his job as an escape
What da fuk dude! You wanna be married to zuck? Divorce FB and stick to your wife
Marriage takes both people to want it. If she wants a divorce, then give it to her.
If I was giving it to her more regularly this situation wouldn’t be there
Change job