RelationshipsSep 23, 2023
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Why is it hard to find hookups in US?

Why is the causal dating so dead in US? I have been trying to meet people on apps but everyone seem to be looking serious. In my home country ugly looking men are finding good chicks for ONS or situationships. I feel like being in India just for the same reason but there is a huge pay gap that’s stopping me. Am I looking at wrong places? FYI: I am on 5 different dating apps and yes, I am on my shitty company’s dating app too! #dating

Amazon WD-400 Sep 23, 2023

Ok that’s enough Blind for the night

Microsoft famfam Sep 23, 2023

Therapy my friend.

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CPOInCA Sep 23, 2023

Here's the brutal truth - while folks on here think they are special and the best option for a potential mate either for a ONS or long term, most women disagree. They simply don't find needy nerdy foreigners obsessed with their TCs and simply looking to get in their pants as someone they want to be with. Get a dating coach or someone in real life to talk to. This is the wrong place to ask for help on topics like this

Adobe skarface Sep 23, 2023

After 5 years in usa this is what it boils to - in usa either you can get money or social/dating life.

Amazon youpsi2.0 Sep 25, 2023

Why not both?

Microsoft jsiw8 Sep 24, 2023

Before 30s I got lots of ONS chicks. Few even directly came to my place without even a date. Hehe. But 30+, everyone's serious now. 😌

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CPOInCA Sep 24, 2023

You didn't get anyone in your 20s. Stop lying.

Keurig Dr Pepper Inc. dinosaur68 Sep 25, 2023

So maybe OP should seek out younger chicks?

Block bluskii Sep 24, 2023

i think women have been realizing that casual relationships don't really benefit them and are overall less enjoyable on average than committed relationships

Microsoft jsiw8 Sep 24, 2023

@Women, is this true?

LinkedIn oEoc64 Sep 24, 2023

After they get ran through in their 20s they reach epiphany stage at age 29-31 and "realize casual is not for them" then look for a beta bob to hit a buzzer beater (marriage and kids). It's an old story at this point.

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Amazon pipsaver Sep 24, 2023

I have seen you way too much on this app Block. You seriously have a problem with Indians. Have you never seen a fit Indian ?

NVIDIA lfkrnxh Sep 24, 2023

Yeah, Block is racist.

Cisco Dr Ramani Sep 24, 2023

Go hire a prostitute. It’s not for free.

LinkedIn oEoc64 Sep 24, 2023

If you're not in the top 20% of height and looks, you're not going to have much success on dating apps. It is a bit easier in big cities with a surplus of women like NYC.

Keurig Dr Pepper Inc. dinosaur68 Sep 25, 2023

Why is height so important? Do guys under 6’ stand a chance??

Amazon youpsi2.0 Sep 25, 2023

Yes, in real life

Qualcomm nutmeg27 Sep 27, 2023

TC tho?

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CPOInCA Sep 27, 2023

TC doesn't matter here - GTFO

Qualcomm nutmeg27 Sep 27, 2023

TC always matters. Maybe OP cant find a hookup because of low TC 🙈🙉