I am in my early 30’s. Fit, blue eyes blond with a chill personality and no issues. I don’t care much about TC or height. I just need someone authentic. What do I need to do to find genuine partner? I have tried dating sites and gotten over short term flings and one night stands.
Are you male or female? RIP your inbox, btw.
Female
Troll in short. A blue eyed, fit blonde not able to find a partner in Bay area (sausage fest). Good one. I know a blue eyed blonde guy on my sister team. The guy drowns in pu$sy.
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Blue eyes? Sorry, many prefer green eyes
Arya?
Ofc
You said you’ve no issues. It’s a big red flag. Many people have issues and traumas that they don’t even know. It’s a bold statement in itself.
I meant in the sense that I don’t have high maintenance needs, nor do I seek anything out of the ordinary in a partner. Everyone has some degree of personality and other neurosis but nothing that stands out. I have asked my friends for candid feedback and done a fair bit of introspection to feel what I said
Define "out of the ordinary".
Try online dating. Worked for me. It’s easier to find a guy that’s compatible when you have some actual information about who they are written in front of you to base your decision on, rather than just go by first impressions and gut feeling and realize later that they are not all that interesting after wasting your time...
Big Lol.
Online dating most of the times doesn't work esp if you are looking for a relationship!
If you're looking for "relationship security" go for indian guy. Otherwise, you're are doing pretty good.
Here we go... Lmao.
I have dated Indian guys. They were great. It’s difficult to align culturally when you consider a long term relationship. Some were somewhat traditional and not quite independent from their family.
Are you in SF or NYC? If NYC, that may be the issue. When you say fit, how fit at you? E.g. almost no fat, or just “normal”? Lastly what would you rate yourself 1-10 appearance-wise? These would all help narrow down the answer
SF. I have been told I am a 9. Although I don’t think how I look should be a factor in a relationship. Swim team and cross country in the past.
49er spotted
“I’m an attractive, athletic build, blonde hair blue eyes girl with cool personality. And I don’t care about looks or money, and I can’t find anyone.” Sure, ok. *huge eye roll*
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TC?
Over 300
Glad you asked for TC, else i was ready with this