Met a very cute guy recently and he is super into me, just that he is a typical working class dude. He works in manufacturing, and he went to a community college and doesnt know how to code. I didnt ask but he probably makes less than 100K at the bay. Feel like if this will not work, I probably should not waste his time. Honestly, if I were a barrista working at Starbucks I’d be happy to be with him. Need some advice from both men and women perspectives. I dont need him to pay for me, but at the same time i dont want to be judged on my spending and lifestyle. Plus that I want him to understand my line of work, and not to comment on it. ;) Tc 190K YOE 1 Update: After talking to this dude for a month and one date, which ended up with a hot making out. I decide to ditch this dude, because he is so fucking weird. He gets turned on by women being rude to him and saying shit to him... What kind of fetish is that?!
You’ve already written him off. Move on.
What does he do in manufacturing?
nothing wrong with community college, not coding, etc but I would want to date a guy with similar academic intellect so we can talk about economics, politics, news, etc just my 2 cents. has nothing to do with money
Thanks! He is not a dumb person I would say, just that he didn’t go to college
Was not going to college something he had a say in? Going to college isn't a choice for many people.
I honestly think you should move on. Probably wouldn’t work... sounds like he’s too good for you
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Bad attitude to finding a soul mate
What does a "typical working class dude" even mean? Does he have an extra arm? I don't see anything wrong with someone who works in manufacturing, went to a CC and makes less than 100k. Has he even judged you on your spending? Because you've judged him plenty. It seems like you are looking for someone with qualities that he does not have. Save both yours and his time and move on.
Lol what are you. Clearly a troll. Move along. You sound like a terrible person who needs to work on yourself for a while — not yet ready to have a good partner.
You followed the path given to you by society, did well in it, and now are a cog in the machine thinking you’re “better” than a guy who you barely know, just based off of your TC (which in tech is very much average). Get over yourself
You sound stuck up af. Do the dude a favor and move on...
Facts
Sigh. People have things called personalities and they vary and that’s what makes human nature so worthwhile. “Stuck up” to you may be “smart and educated” to another. There is nothing wrong with OP.