Women, would you date a divorced dad with 3 kids?
What are some blockers that come to your mind? L6 SDM $295k TC
I would want to be very careful about when I was meeting the children so they don’t get the wrong impression early about the state of the relationship - it’s all about managing expectations appropriately until the relationship is confirmed long term. (I don’t have kids myself so I’m just making assumptions based on little data 😁)
Thanks for the thoughtful comment. I agree that intros to the kids too early is not great. Anything else in particular that you would want a guy in this situation to do to make you feel comfortable? Asking for a friend :)
You’re the father, just leave the kids once you find a hot young date. She’ll give you new ones, probably better ones!
stupid fucking post. if a woman is not divorced and doesn’t have kids, she’ll see divorced and kids as negatives, all other things equal. blocker is relative to your other traits and no one wants to hear about those here. it is highly unlikely that a divorced woman with three kids will see either trait as a blocker. each of your other traits that you’re not listing will be blockers for some and non-blockers for others. but you knew all that without posting this. you fucked up and got divorced. get over it, man the fuck up, and go spend your time on a dating app instead of blind.
Salty much?
not at all. it’s just a dumb post.
I think posting total comp in a post about relationships would be more of a blocker than being divorced.
I guess you can't win on blind, not posting your TC gets you trolled posting it also gets called out. I flipped a coin and went with post it 👍
If it's relevant, post it. If not, don't. Who cares what some asshat trolls you with? I report every tc gtfo post as trolling and most get removed fast.
No blockers if his TC is right! A good TC is the foundation of a successful relationship, because it can unblock pretty much anything. If he is loaded he can hire 5 babysitters for the kids while the two of you are away chilling in the Bahamas. If the TC is not sexy, RUN! Just saying!
Leave him to concentrate on his kids. There are bunch of guys who are yet to get married. Hunt them.
Stay away
Any particular reason?
Def not !
Your TC as L6 SDM is less than some new grad offers offers at uber
ok buddy. We believe you that Uber pays more than 300k for new grads 😂
If you include the stock yes
3 kids
Or 2.5 at the very least.