I'm a 27 year old woman and sometimes I wonder how you know true love vs. lust. What if I'm not super attractived to the guy physically but it feels so comfortable around him? Is that bad/good in the early stages? What if I find someone wildly attractive but I'm afraid I'm being judged/can't be myself around him? This dating thing is very confusing... #help.
TC or GTFO.
I was crazily attracted to my ex who was stunningly beautiful.. so much that I overlooked all flaws.. Like others pointed looks are temporary and nature is what it boils down to.. My current gf may not be the most beautiful but she has a heart of gold and we are super comfortable around each other..
I don’t believe that people still respond to these trolls!
if you are attracted for looks, then its just infatutaion. Its normal to go a step above to please one you like, but just take a step back and check if you can do tat forever. Never fake anything just to impress. All kind of relations need time to nurture and grow. If you are judged at every step tats a red signal. Also learn to Respect other persons view and also see he/she does the same.
If you don’t mind getting dicked down then burned. Go for lust. If you think you can see the future. Go for love.
Blind is turning into another quora
I dunno I think quora style stories would get ridiculed and shut down pretty fast...
just keep dating. jump to next hot guy when you get a chance. rinse repeat this until you are sick of it. you will slowly realize this gets exhausting and you want something simple and real. that’s when you overlook superficial but good to have things and try to look for qualities that really matter. you have to come to this realization yourself.
If you look at a person and imagine them at their worst (a few pounds added and maybe super grump) and yet you still want to be with them.....that’s love. If that’s a turn off....it’s lust
Lust over love! Love is overrated. :D
Looks fade over time, the person remains the same at heart
Aww
Bs. Looks change, hearts change. Every ducking thing changes over time.