but i also heard from a company who wants to hire me and will pay 135-140 base. in nyc and do product design. id also have a team there and a path to become team lead in a year. what do i do? do i tell my employer?
I don't get it. All the information you provided is one place gives you a path to leadership and pays more. What decision is there to make...?
Do I give my employer another chance?
No. Unless you want to have alot of demands placed on your work output to justify the raise.
Take the offer.
Do I not give my employer the opportunity to match?
I wouldn’t. Counter offers rarely work out well. They’ll consider you a flight risk.