Not attracted to wife anymore
5 years of marriage. We both are 30 years of age. I’m not attracted to her in any sort of way. Physically - eats shitty foods and barely exercises. Sex is down to 1/2 times a month. Career - likes doing 9-5, no ambition on growth or learning anything new. Travel - is a couch potato while I want to travel the world. Although she is kind and fun to be around. Time to give up on this relationship? I think we both deserve love, passion & ambition-compatible partners.
She feels the same about you and that's why she doesn't have any drive or no motivation to put any efforts.
Maybe you should try relationship counseling? That may help clear some silent misunderstandings.
Before you quit on her, was she like that before you got married? If she changed with you, there is no option for divorcing yourself and you might end up with the same wife pretty soon. “You become responsible, forever, for what you have tamed.”
What do you mean by the latter half of your comment
They’re saying if she went downhill after she got with you, your next wife might turn out the same way.
Show her the post.. and then let’s see her list.. it’s going to be way long buddy.. just saying!! Go see a counselor and fix your relationship..
Arranged marriage?
No
Ambition n travel r over rated . Working to make sundar rich isn’t ambition .
If no kids yeah make a fast exist. Nothing to lose with a non zero chance of finding someone you truly desire
What’s wrong with a 9-5 career? That’s what working at Google also is lol.
Kids?
None
Then bail right away. Will only get worse