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Two of my female friends (they both don't know each other) whom I have known for couple of years now approached me to take the relationship forward. I like them both and I'm now confused whom to go with. Main points about them: A + Simple and sweet, usually tend to be calm and handle better even when we had disagreements - Short (~5' and I'm 6') - She is Mechanical Engineer while I'm a SWE (not too many common topics to discuss but we do have stuff to talk about) B + She is a SWE too so we tend to discuss tech things + Taller than the other girl - She is sweet too but there were occasions I felt her tempers flare up (when things dont go her way). I sometimes think this is a genuine red flag while sometimes I feel I'm just over thinking and being too critical. This point is killing me. Both are reasonably good looking to me, let's call that even. And yes, before you ask, I had sex with both and I have no major complaints with either. I tried talking to different people too my mind tend to constantly compare that person with these. What makes it worse is when I spend time with A, I tend to think B may be a better choice and when I'm with B, I feel A might be better. This dilemma has been killing me for months and they both have been fairly patient (I also never stopped from dating other guys). Please help me resolve this dilemma, you guys are my last hope! Not kidding. TC: 370 (yea not at Eaton) #dating #marriage #relationships
Like as in smiled at you?
They love me and want to marry me.
Give them one cup
What’s the TCs look like ? Also plz post BMI . On 1 to 10 how wild was sex with both . How tall is the other chic ? How rich are their families ? Who is more ambitious or has more potential? Etc etc .
Look at both of their moms and family interactions.
I'm very sorry to hear about your engaging in these premarital activities. You ought to be mindful of their family honor even if they aren't. It will affect their marriage prospects. With regard to your dilemma, you ought to go with the first option as she is simply and homely. Not only did you outrage her modesty, but she is also on the shorter side. Both of these affect her marriage prospects. You must do the right thing. All the very best.
Damn at google who was at ibm is back trolling
All I read was STD! I hope you have been using condoms
All you just said was I am a virgin though not by choice.
Why is it a concern that New made a point about safe sex? Is it fashionable to hookup and expose oneself & one's partners to STDs?
The choice is an illusion. See through it, and realize this is just 3SUM.
It's just a dream not even an illusion.
The height difference is too big with the first woman.
Go away from both for couple of weeks, no text/calls nothing… and see who do you miss the most … make decision sooner because you are giving wrong signals to one of the girl n that’s too heartbreaking
From your own description you like B better. The points you put for A aren’t very positive (and I personally wouldn’t want to date anyone who considers me simple)
Eh? By simple I mean she likes simple stuff.. not too picky or flashy. Its a compliment for christs sake. Are people really triggered even for such "simple" stuff nowadays that would consider a deal breaker?! 🤦♂️
I don’t think anyone is triggered…to me simple is the opposite of sophisticated so it’s not a compliment and I wouldn’t want anyone to perceive me in that way. Either way my point stands that you say more positive things about B (also I don’t think you really like either of them as much as you should for a long term relationship. It wouldn’t be so hard for you to decide if you did)